"Steemit Engagement Challenge | S14W3 | Parent's Strict Behavior and Children's Mental Health".

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Hello friends how are you all? Hope you all are very well. I am also very well with the grace of Allah through your prayers. The third week of the Steemit Engagement Challenge Season 14 is a great one with all the contests going on. The contest run by the Steem4Bloggers community is, "Steemit Engagement Challenge | S14W3 | Parent's Strict Behavior and Children's Mental Health". . It is a very nice competition which I like very much. So I am going to participate in this contest with joy and so please stay with me.

What are the advantages and disadvantages of parents strict behaviour?

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Every parent loves their child more than anything. Parents always want their children to live happily and peacefully. Parents always try to do good things for their survival. But since the question asked to mention its pros and cons, I am now ready to answer the pros and cons so let's start.

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Convenience

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If the parents are strict then the greatest advantage over the child is that the child is obliged to do any work. I have seen that children who are not obedient to their parents get involved in various misdeeds. And if the parent wants to do something for the child then he does what is good for the child without directly discussing the decision with the child. It also brings good results. But remember one thing, parents always want the welfare of the child, that's why no matter what strictness they adopt for the good of the child, the positive side always prevails.

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Difficulty

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Due to parents' negligence, bad things often happen more than good things. For example, when a child reaches puberty, if he is not back with his parents, the child feels most uncomfortable and bad. Because he knows that his parents always talk to him angrily and are more strict due to which he cannot share anything with his parents. As a result of which the child is hindered in growing up in the beginning and at various stages the child faces a lot of losses due to not speaking valuable words to his parents.

What do you feel if you were at the place of such childrens who have to face strictness?

For each person to live independently, it is important to have a healthy environment first. Because when there is a healthy and beautiful environment then the child will continue to grow naturally. And the most important thing is that children love to imitate, they love to imitate everyone including their parents.

Because of which every parent should treat the child properly so that he grows up getting the best aspects from the family. Hardness is better in some areas and worse in others. If I point out the good side of this kind, it will be due to strictness, people try to do almost all the work on time. Because he knows that if he doesn't finish the job on time then he will face punishment. Because of which he has a specific goal and he comes to fulfill the specific goal and works to the best of his ability.

But strictness is also detrimental as excessive strictness makes people unable to express creative genius easily. The reason I say this is because the creative personalities on the board are those who think about anything and make decisions that take their time. All in all I would like to say that strictness is never good but in some cases it is necessary to have strictness.

As a child, what do you expect from your parents regarding their behavior?

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I will always say one thing that I am always eternally grateful to my parents. Because they are always thinking about my good and bad from the time I was born until I was brought up. No matter what a parent does, only the parent selflessly wants the child's well-being. In present times you can observe that people do not want to do anything out of selflessness.

On the other hand, parents always think about the good and bad of their child and push their own happiness away and get busy in finding the child's happiness. Alhamdulillah I am very happy that Almighty Allah has given me beautiful parents because they understand me a lot. Parents are good everyone wants to know how to make their child happy. I have a request to all those whose parents are alive to try to take care of their parents. Never be mean or misbehave with me.

What are the negative effects of emotional blackmailing?

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There are various negative aspects of emotional blackmail which I will try to highlight to you now. You will hopefully learn a lot from these aspects that I think may not be surprising to you. Because blackmail is something that every person does at least once in their life

• Knowing about someone's weakness, they blackmail him and impose a difficult decision on him.

• Blackmail puts us under stress that makes us feel like criminals.

• Sometimes, if not most, people are forced to push themselves to death due to emotional blackmail.

Emotional blackmail is something that prevents a person from living normally. If you notice, usually those who are close to you i.e. those who are your own will always take advantage of your weakness and blackmail you emotionally.

It was a very good competition for me. Because I am happy to share many words of my mind. So I am Inviting my steemian friends @msharif @damithudaya @fjjrg @eliany to in the participate in the competition.

Thank you all so much for reading my blog.