"Steemit Engagement Challenge | S14W3 | Parent's Strict Behavior and Children's Mental Health".

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Parents parents, I must ever be grateful for the privilege to have an awesome parents, their teaching and support just like we discussed last week has given me the direction to follow in bringing up my own children, though there are things I need to put in my own training because my parents were strict ,if you ask me how they did it, then I will carefully explain everything in this post.

🙍 What are the advantages and disadvantages of parents strict behaviour?

Every good thing has it's own bad side just like parents been strict on thier children. Now let's see the disadvantages and Advantages.

Advantages	Disadvantages
children whose parents are strict behaves well morally	while the strict behaviour will make the children very secretive
It helps the children to be organised	the children are very wild if the see the opportunity
The parents helps them in making decisions	Hard to mingle well with others when the parents are not there

🙍 What do you feel if you were at the place of such childrens who have to face strictness?

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I'm a victim of strict parents, yes my father especially , during those days I always feel imprisoned, I feel like I'm missing alot, I feel like I'm insalved. My father will never allow us to follow other children to do things they were doing for example if there's a program to be held at the primary school field very close to us other children will come out early to the program that will last till dawn but my father will never let us attend we will be in our house hearing the program untill sleep will carry us. His reasons were very frustrating, do we have any say? NO,because he's our father. As an adult now if i see anyone subjected to such strictness I always feel pity for the person I knew what I went through.

🙍 As a child, what do you expect from your parents regarding their behavior?

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There are a lot of things that children expect from their parents behaviour such as.

• Being open minded. Yes, children expects their parents to be free and open to them involving them in some of the family decisions .
• Good models. Children expect their parents to be an exemplary people, not parents that fight and argue here and then, smoking,drinking and doing all sorts of embarrassing things.
• Accommodating and attentive. Children derives joy from their parents when they accommodate them even when they are wrong by giving them room to have a say in the family. Parents who listens to their children wins thier heart naturally.
• Friendly. Children expect their parents to be their closest friend that they can run to any time any day.

🙍 What are the negative effects of emotional blackmailing?)

The effects of emotional blackmailing is a serious one take a look at some it.

• Being alone. People who are being blackmailed always feel rejected and lonely, they don't associating with others ,they distance themselves from so many things.

• inferiority complex. These people always feel so inferior, and a shame of doing thing in the public unlike their counterparts.

• Always confused. They are always confused, they don't focus, they are lost completely. They lack to boldness to interact freely with others.

Conclusion.

How parents behaves towards their children can make then or mare them , therefore for us to enjoy our children when they grow we should make them our friend, support and build their mental, physical and emotional self esteem so that they can be good and responsible adult tomorrow.

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