"Steemit Engagement Challenge | S14W3 | Parent's Strict Behavior and Children's Mental Health".
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| 🙍 What are the advantages and disadvantages of parents strict behaviour? |
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Parents ... a guardian .. our master.
Advantages
Parents are strict for our welfare . When parents are strict then it keeps children in control. In initial stages of life , children are immature and they don't know what is right or wrong . They barely have any capability to distinguish between what is for their betterment and what is for their damage . In that case parents' strictness is what saves them . The reason why they need to be strict and make certain rules for children to follow them without much explanations is that the youngsters don't have the capacity to understand the facts and logics . Hence , need certain ideologies to stick on them .
Disadvantages
It gets really dangerous for a child when the parents in themselves aren't capable of being a PARENT. Initially , parents just superimpose their ideologies which may be wrong or right .... which may be of very orthodox kind . This makes children's mentality ill . They opt for the exact same what their parents had instead of something better and different according to the era . Also their personal thoughts and opinions die .
| 🙍 What do you feel if you were at the place of such childrens who have to face strictness? |
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Well , my feelings would completely depend on what kind of and the extent of strictness I am put into . If their is very little strictness or maybe genuine strictness under which I don't feel violated , disrespected and publicly exploited then I think .. I won't have much problem with that . This is because I understand parents have their own thinking and as our saviors its natural for them to superimpose some of their ideologies on us , but definitely if my dreams and self esteem will be killed then I don't think I would be able to bear such strictness.
| 🙍 As a child, what do you expect from your parents regarding their behavior? |
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In simple words , I expect UNDERSTANDING and RESPECT. That's it .
I expect my parents to understand me and in return expect me to understand them . When one is living in a home .. in a house .. in a family then that means there is no boss - employ relationship . Their has to be the feeling of oneness which comes only when everyone is satisfied and everyone's demands are understood politely. I know that I have to obey to some of the rules of my parents even if I feel dissatisfied with the logics behind them and the same they have to do . Its not about fighting for our rights , its about caring for everyone's happiness. So I just expect them to fill little understanding and respect in me so that I may be able to give the same back .
| 🙍 What are the negative effects of emotional blackmailing? |
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COUNTLESS !
There are countless effects of emotional blackmailing ... and especially on children. Parents must never do this because it leads the child in a very dark phase from which it gets almost impossible to come out . It leaves trauma .. degrades self confidence , destroys self belief , destroys dreams and self respect , makes them feel like gaslighting , fills them with self blame and what not .
Parents think that they are just scolding or maybe the situation is just a matter of time . But the thing is that they are actually printing that darkness on innocent paper of their child for their whole damn life . A child never forgets it .. never . It gets depressing , suffocating and suffering .
When children does this with their parents , then it breaks them because they feel betrayed by someone they have given their life , needs , wants and everything. No child should ever do this .
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India , December 15, 2023
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Hello dear good morning and how was your night? Is good to see you present your entry for this challenge in a very grand style.
Yes you definitely deserve to expect your parents to understand you because things won't be good if they don't understand you and if you don't also understand them.
I wish you good luck in this contest dear, I hope to see you at the top on the result announcement day because you are very hardworking.
You have expressed your thoughts very beautifully. Strictness should be within a limit that the child can tolerate. But children need some strictness along with love. Because parents want to protect their children from the evil of the world and inspire them to have a bright future, because the love of parents is like a balm for children. May you get success in this competition. With such best wishes, your friend.
Yes you are very right my dear, strictness should be done along with love so that it won't heat the child much.
Parents loves their children alot that's why they discipline them to be successful in life. I also wish you good luck in this engagement challenge.
Yes... saintkelvin17
Yeah. Happy Sunday to you and I hope you have a nice day today.
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Congrats to you for this 🥳. Yeah, I have seen that .
Yeah friend, it was never easy for me as I really worked hard for it.
My next achievement is getting my first dolphin and you have gotten yours, good luck.
Have a nice weekend.
Hola!
Justo como dijiste, un niño busca la comprensión de sus padres, y es necesario que si han hecho algo malo los padres les expliquen el por qué está mal lo que hicieron o lo que quieren hacer, muchos padres simplemente les dicen "porque sí" o "porque yo lo digo" y eso está mal porque ellos nunca entenderán. La crianza de los hijos es algo que se debe de tomar con calma y responsabilidad ya que la forma de ser de los hijos depende de todo lo que les enseñan sus padres. Éxitos en el concurso.
¡Saludos amiga!🤗
La comprensión por parte de nuestros padres es clave para comprender que la disciplina más allá de ser negativa, es favorable sin embargo, se debe tener presente que esta acción tiene sus límites entre los que resalta la comprensión.
En lo personal, me gusta el comportamiento estricto solo si es balanceado ya que, de esta manera nuestros padres serían muy amorosos con nosotros.
Te deseo mucho éxito en la dinámica, un fuerte abrazo💚
Cuando somos niños queremos que nuestros padres nos comprendan, y que no sean tan estrictos con nosotros, cuando los padres son estrictos es porque quieren lo mejor para nosotros, pero muchos sobrepasan lo de ser estrictos y llegar a maltratar a sus hijos y esto los vuelve rencorosos y de tantos castigo se pueden volver rebeldes
Saludos amigo.
Los padres son estrictos porque desean que los hijos vallan por el camino del bien sin embargo muchos son duros en cuanto a impartir su crianza,
Cuando somos niños todos deseamos ser comprendido escuchado.
Los padres deben de ser equilibrado cuando disciplina a su hijo
Truer words than this, you will not find! We are strict because we care. It is just such a pity that our children don't always agree with us.
It is only when they are all grown up and have their own children that they understand the true meaning of being a parent and discipline.
Good luck with the contest!