Steemit Engagement Challenge | S14W3 | Parent's Strict Behavior and Children's Mental Health
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Dear friends and brothers, hope all are well. Alhamdulillah I am also fine by the infinite mercy of Allah. Health is a great gift from God. I express my gratitude to him by thanking him for this blessing. Today I came to the Steam for bloggers community. Where the engagement contest is being organized. The subject of the contestis Steemit Engagement Challenge S14W3 - Parent's Strict Behavior and Children's Mental Health From the best of my knowledge on this subject I will try to write inshallah. So let's begin.
Parents are our guardians, responsible for us, looking after us, their responsibility and duty to make us human. As such, our parents are our idols. Our parents face many obstacles in the way of making us human. Sometimes they get angry when things go beyond their control Go or misbehave with children.
Our parents actually love and discipline us for our good, but while all parents are good, there are a few who are abusive. Below are the advantages and disadvantages for us in this bad usage.
Advantages:-
- It will be instructive for our children if our parents abuse us for good purposes.
- Sometimes bad use can lead to good things.
- If children are kept in love, there is a chance for them to become very naughty, so they can be brought under control even with bad behavior.
Disadvantages :-
- The advantages will outnumber the disadvantages. Due to bad use they will lose trust in parents.
- You will feel lonely, you will think that I have no one in this life.
- Bad usage can destroy our beautiful life.
- Children with coercion and abuse are more likely to choose bad paths.
Thank God that I was not born in such a strict family. Because I have seen all the families around us who are strict families, I have seen moments of misbehaving with their children. Then I thought that it was possible for me not to live, if I were their child. Such bad behavior is the child of the family If I had, I might not have come to my desired place right now.
Because my parents have never used bad things till today, they used to correct me if I made a mistake. Alhamdulillah. In most cases using lightning can never bring success. And the child cannot be educated in good education, cannot be raised as a good and honest person.
All they want as a child, and all I want as a child, is fun and love. From birth to adulthood they are mindless and ignorant. Nothing can ever be obtained by putting pressure on their heads. If such bad practices are done now then children will be brain damaged, as children I want them to treat us well and fulfill our requests. If what we want is fulfilled then we are willing to do everything, so it is necessary to earn with love without taking anything by pressure.
Emotional blackmail is a human tool. We emotionally blackmail until we get what we want in love. In this, even if we get the desired object, we have more negative effects than positive ones, many times we leave something in love with our parents. I pay And if someone is angry, I break his anger by putting him under the illusion of love. However, it does not fit with these emotions and conscience.
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Assalamu'alaikum,
Thank you for sharing your insightful thoughts on the Steemit Engagement Challenge in the Steem for Bloggers community. Your understanding of the advantages and disadvantages of parents' strict behavior is well articulated. It's crucial to acknowledge that while discipline is essential, it should be balanced and aimed at guiding children towards positive growth.
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Greetings, yes, the problem lies when parents are abusive, sometimes childhood patterns are repeated, it happens in some cases. But the parent in this case can recreate that situation and obviously presents emotional problems that will harm the child.
That is why it is important for parents who have had these experiences to channel them, to heal wounds. It is incredible how these marks can accompany you forever, but ideally they should serve to make you a better parent.
Right talking, thank you so much for nicely comment 🥰
¡Saludos amigo!🤗
La exigencia es buena hasta cierto punto porque, cuando llega al nivel de control, más allá de ser una manera de educar con rigor para que los hijos sigan las normas sociales, lo que termina siendo es una imposición de vida que no permite la felicidad de los hijos... Siendo esto algo muy delicado porque, la idea es darles herramientas para que se defiendan, no hacerlos dependientes a sus padres.
Te deseo mucho éxito en la dinámica, un fuerte abrazo💚
hello brother @memamun Your article on the advantages and disadvantages of parents' strict behavior is insightful. You've provided a balanced perspective, acknowledging that while strictness can have instructive aspects, it may also lead to negative consequences such as a loss of trust and potential deviation into unhealthy paths. Your personal stance and gratitude for a nurturing family environment add a personal touch to your response.
Additionally, your consideration of emotional blackmailing adds depth to the discussion, highlighting its potential negative impacts, especially when used as a tool for manipulation. It's clear that you value the importance of love and positive reinforcement in parenting, creating a nurturing environment for children to thrive. Well done brother and take care💗✨
Wow, you had so much free hand at young age. Your parents loved and cared for you and never gave you strict orders, unlike some parents that enforce strict order on their children.
Strict parenting with sweet emotions can make a child a better person in the future.
Hello friend good morning 🌄 how was your night? Reading your entry is a very nice experience. I love it alot.
Parents needs to reduce the rate at which they act strict with their children because is not really good at all, such things do make children feel insecure.
I wish you good luck in this engagement challenge.