Steemit Engagement Challenge | S14W3 | Parent's Strict Behavior and Children's Mental Health".

This is me @kathy-cute from Philippines and you are here Reading my Blog. I hope you all are enjoying the 12th season here. I am participating in the fourth week of this season. This is my participation in a contest Parent's Strict Behavior and Children's Mental Health".

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I want to talk about my parents here first. I am too much blessed that I have got a too much supporting, helpful and loving parents. They are so polite and soft. Unfortunately they got separated and I am living with my father now, but miss those days when we have a joined and combined family.

I feel parents strictness have it's own benefits and and looses. Let me put light on both.

• Advantages: I think the best advantage of strict parents is that it makes the child obedient, he will perform well in school, he can't misbehave someone, he will be punctual. All these comes with the parents strictness. My father was little strict sometimes so I have always the fear of father in my head before doing anything wrong.

• Disadvantages: I believe over strictness is not good for child mental state. It makes him mentality distrub. He will always be under extreme pressure. He can't express himself freely. His mental growth will stop at a point.

I think I can't sustain it. I am too much fragile and week kind of person that I think I can't go through such tough life. Even my parents speration was too much traumatic for me and it took me years to come out of that it. If I would have that burden, I think I would have died.

Let me tell you that my father is the most loving person. He loves me so much as I am the youngest child of him. You wouldn't believe he is like my friend. My Papa is my best friend and I feel no hesitation in sharing things with him. Even I share too many personal things too him. He is so soft and loving towards me. I really love him too.

I am expecting my parents to be too much supportive, loving, caring, they should understand my problems, should understand my likes and dislikes and all these things. As I have told that I am a child from a separated family, I live with my father and I can say it proudly that my Papa has all these qualities.

As I am claiming here that he is my best friend, the best guardian and he understands every problem of mine, so you can imagine how good he would be to me. My father is not only that good to me, but also to my other sister kiscia too.

I suggest others parents too, to be good, supportive and kind towards your children. Must love them and show and express your love for them. You love for them must be greater than your anger on them.

Emotional blackmailing is a server crime, it should be punished and stopped at any cost. I can best explain what emotional blackmailing is. Unfortunately I have been through this tough time.

I was once emotionally blackmailed by my ex. That was the tough time I was going through. He continuesly blackmailing me through a secret thing I can't tell it here. Then I told my father and he let me out of that situation. That person was taught a lesson then too.

As I have said that my father is too much supportive to me, so helped me a lot in this tough time. Even I was mistaken here at some points too. zi have done something which brought me here.

Regard kathy-cute