"Steemit Engagement Challenge | S14W3 | Parent's Strict Behavior and Children's Mental Health"

Hello and warm wishes to all my dear friends It's @haseebkhaan coming to you from Pakistan.
I'm feeling excited to be a part of the Week 3 of the Engagement Challenge Season 14 which is being hosted by the #Steem4Bloggers community.
The topic we are is quite delicate and deserves a thoughtful conversation within today's community. We are going to talk about the times when kids might not receive the attention they truly require in families. This topic is close to my heart and I m eager to share my point of view.
So lets dive into my thoughts together and start unraveling these important matters.

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🙍 What are the advantages and disadvantages of parents strict behaviour ?

Advantages

Structured Environment

• Provides a stable and disciplined atmosphere
• Establishes a sense of security for the child

Develops Essential Life Skills

• Encourages responsibility and accountability
• Promotes the learning of time management

Guidance for Better Choices

• Sets clear boundaries for appropriate behavior
• Guides children toward making positive decisions

Disadvantages

Resentment and Rebellion

• Excessive strictness may lead to resentment
• Could trigger rebellious behavior in children

Communication Barriers

• Might hinder open communication between parents and children
• Potential breakdown of trust and understanding

Impact on Parent-Child Relationship

• Striking a balance is crucial for a healthy relationship
• Overstrictness may strain the parent-child bond

🙍 What do you feel if you were at the place of such childrens who have to face strictness ?

Imagine being in the place of kids facing strictness. It is not easy right?
Think about feeling a bit trapped maybe confused waiting and wanting someone to understand you. Picture dealing with rules that seem really strict and there is not much room for flexibility around

In that situation you might feel like you want a little more freedom or just a chance to share your thoughts without worrying about getting into trouble. The expectations can be pretty heavy and finding a balance between having rules and having some flexibility can be a real challenge.

Thinking about this its important to consider these feelings with kindness. Understanding the difficulties these kids go through in a strict setting opens the door to empathy and hopefully encourages a more understanding way of guiding them. Everyone, no matter their age wants a mix of guidance and understanding to do well emotionally and socially.

🙍 As a child, what do you expect from your parents regarding their behavior ?

• Love and Affection

Every child desires love and affection from their parents so A warm hug or a kind word in this regards can make a world of difference

• Understanding and Patience

Children wish for understanding when they make mistakes. Patience during challenging times helps them learn and grow

• Encouragement and Support

Positive approach and support in their hurdles give children the confidence to explore and excel

• Trust and Open Communication

Building trust and encouraging open communication allow children to share their thoughts and feeling without fear

• Guidance and Structure

Children benefit from clear guidance and a structured routine, providing a sense of security and stability

In essence
Children long for a blend of love, understanding encouragement and guidance from their parents. These elements create a foundation for a strong and emotionally connected parent-child relationship

🙍 What are the negative effects of emotional blackmailing ?

Emotional blackmail is like a game with feelings causing some real issues

Strained Connections

• It messes with relationships making them all tense
• Trust starts slipping when mind games become a habit

Feeling Not Good Enough

• You end up doubting yourself
• Its like someone trying to convince you that you re not good enough just as you are

Hard Time Talking Openly

• Expressing yourself becomes tricky like navigating a field of eggshells

Emotional Stress

• Dealing with emotional blackmail leads to stress making you feel uneasy and low
• The constant pressure and guilt trips take a toll on your mental well-being

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