Hello My Steemain Friends ,

How are you. I hope you people of steemian are good and enjoy your life . Well I am well. May God bless you all. Today I am writing about an interesting Steemit Engagement Challenge S14 - W3: which is all time my favourite topic “Parent's Strict Behavior and Children's Mental Health" So, in this post I am going to share my point of view about this topic.

Parents devote their whole life for the good future of their children and to give them good values and their only effort is that their child never has to feel embarrassed in front of anyone or any outsider should say anything to him. . But sometimes, due to this thinking, parents become very strict in their behavior towards their children, due to which distance comes in the relationship between parents and children and children are not able to openly tell their feelings to their parents. I am not saying that parents should not be strict. Just as there is a limit to everything, similarly there is a limit to the anger and strictness of parents.

Advantages Of Parents Strict Behaviour

If the strict behavior of the parents is within limits and where their strictness is justified, then the children will never become rebellious.

By behaving truthfully, children remain disciplined and they take care of their company and they also take care of how to behave in social behavior.

Children remain responsible towards their responsibilities and also remain disciplined in studies.

When parents are not strict on everything but sometimes they are strict on some things. Even then the children do not feel that bad.

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Disadvantages Of Parents Strict Behaviour

Those parents who always show power over their children, their children suffer from inferiority complex, get spoiled and come into bad company because they know that there is no one to listen to them at home. Even if they say something to someone at home, they will be scolded. Due to this, children move away from home and get involved in wrong company.
Even if children concentrate on studies or any other work, they always have a strong attitude towards their work and they always have the story of being afraid that they might get scolded.

Therefore, I would say that parents should understand their children and children should also understand the struggles of their parents and children can always be explained with love rather than scolding.

If I were in the place of such children who had to face the strictness of their parents, I would have felt a lot of pain and probably my heart would have been broken and I would have felt that I am completely alone in the world. Because parents are the support system of children. Children feel safe under the shadow of their parents.

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If I had been treated like this, I would probably have become silent. She could never express her feelings to her parents. Maybe my confidence would have been broken because if you are scolded again and again, you will be afraid to do everything.

As a child, I think that whenever parents behave strictly with their children, they should later explain to the children the reason for behaving strictly, why they did so and if they are not strict then they should be punished. How many losses will the child have to face in his life?

I would expect the same thing from my parents, that sometimes they would praise my work, so that my confidence would increase, I would believe in myself that I too can do something. Because if someone's confidence is broken then he will never be able to do anything in his life and parents are the ones who instill confidence in their children and make them believe that if they work a little harder then they can be successful. No one can stop it.

Be it parents or children, both attack each other with emotional black making. This is the easiest way, but if this weapon is used daily, then the edge of this weapon also reduces. Haha, 🤣 🤣 it's a joke part

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But this is a sensitive issue, because it gets the work done quickly. But somewhere in the children's mind, whenever I ask them to do something, they stop me by emotionally blackmailing them. By emotionally black-making the parents, sometimes for the sake of family, sometimes for the sake of society, sometimes for the sake of money. Its disadvantage is that if we do emotional black making again and again, then children do not share their feelings. Because they know what the result will be after talking.

I would invite my few friends @wilmer1988 , @helengutier2 , @rahul989 , @alessgsl , @smartlouis .

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