Steemit Engagement Challenge S14W3 - Parent's Strict Behavior and Children's Mental Health
Hello everyone, I hope you all are doing well. I am here to share my participation in the Steemit Engagement Challenge season 14 week 3. It's an interesting topic to share my views on as on important topic about parenting & I think everyone should think about it, about consequences & impacts on children mental & physical health.
Parents' behavior is the one of major impacts on the lives of children. Sometimes parents act very strictly and sometimes act very politely. There are many advantages and disadvantages of both, and below I'm going to share some of them.
Advantages
As parents, they think differently from children. Because it's parents responsibility that how their children get the groom. Sometimes it's very necessary to act very strictly with children. The main advantages of this strict act are that they obey their parents, they never perform a bad activity, They never dishearten anyone and they never make the same mistake.
Disadvantages
Along with many advantages, there are many disadvantages to parents' strict behavior with children. Most of the children feel very mentally tired due to their parents' strict behavior. They produce fear in their body and can't perform any work.
It's a very difficult situation if I'm in that situation I think that parents don't have to act very strictly. Because like others in this situation, I feel very disheartened and very low.
When parents act very strictly most of the time with children then it's the research says that the children adopt this behavior and then become rude to parents and can't obey of parents.
Parents have to act normally with children and teach them with love and respect. Because if parents act very strictly then the children also act the same as the parents which is not good at all.
As a child, we expect much positivity from our parents regarding their behavior and below I'm going to share some of the points.
As a child, we expect that our parents don't act very strictly most of the time.
As a child, we expect that our parents have to teach with love and respect. So, we can understand more better.
As a child, if we make any mistake, firstly our parents have to teach and tell us and tell us to never repeat it. If the child does it again, then they can act a little strict.
As a child, we expect that our parents should correct our mistakes by supporting us and not reacting to mistakes.
There are so many negative effects of emotional blackmail. When any person or parents use this method (emotional blackmailing) most of their children lead to depression and can't act normally.
They lead to anxiety, and most people lose their mental health. Emotional blackmailing is a top trend nowadays and most people use this tactic to convey anyone.
Depression, anxiety, stress, fear & loss of mental health, etc are the major effects of emotional blackmailing. We don't need to do this act with anyone because it's wrong.
This was all about my participation. I hope you all share your valuable comments & I want to invite my friends @drhira, @uzma4882, and @msharif to share their participation. I hope everyone share their views about this important topic. Best of luck to all other users.
Cuando los padres son muy estrictos con sus hijos sienten un cansancio una presión que lo que desean es salir corriendo y gritando los cuatro vientos sin embargo estos niños aquí en disciplina y es difícil que cometan el mismo error dos veces pero hay que ser equilibrados para que el niño pueda desarrollarse bien emocionalmente
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Los padres tienen que aprender a aplicar la disciplina con cariño y con amor porque cuando la aplican siendo muy estricto nosotros los hijos comenzamos a tenerles miedo en vez de respeto pero siempre los padres encontrarán la forma de educarnos bien.
No recurriendo a chantajes maliciosos que pueden hacer que el niño actúe de otra forma.
Te deseo mucho éxito amiga.