Your Opinion Matters/Week #14/The Divorce.
Introduction
Hello steemians, it is delightful to have you all as friends who are always there to read, correct, and add to the little I know. I give a huge applause to the steemit team for bringing about this unique platform which brings men and women from different kindreds and nations to rub minds together on certain topics that would help humanity. Thanks to the community and @genomil for bringing an educative and lively contest topic: The Divorce. I am here to share my opinion on the above topic keep reading down and I know you will find it interesting.
Divorce: this word seems to be a bad name to some people when it comes to marriages but to some people, it is normal and to some people again it is better or preferable, I was raised with the knowledge that, divorce is not religiously accepted. Divorce is a stage or an endpoint to marriage and divorce does not just come like that but reasons are accompanied by it. A lot of homes broke down and led to divorce because of one reason or the other. It could be from the man or the woman.
Why divorce?
Marriage is not meant to be ended, it is a journey of two individuals from different homes entirely to start up life and a good family together and again to raise Godly or well-behaved offspring. I mentioned earlier that, I grow up knowing that, divorce is a bad thing but these days, things have changed, life itself has changed completely. People don't feel it even if they are wrong because everything is becoming normal and so also divorce in marriages.
Divorce is a separation of the two individuals who promised themselves to stay together forever. A lot of homes are broken because of one thing or the order and some of the reasons that lead to divorce are;
- Infidelity
- Lack of trust
- Lack of respect
- Hypocrisy
- Unfaithfulness etc.
My view on Divorce
I want to be plain on both sides and before that, I want to tell you a short story.
My elder sister named Grace sue her husband in court and the reason is that she needs divorce papers from her husband because she is seeking and tired of the marriage. I overheard her narration and I was just laughing you know why? I remembered when the man was coming to my family's house to visit her, I saw that everlasting love in them, they were in love to the point that my sister was ready to die if my daddy refuses her to marry her present husband but now she is needing divorce why?
Her reason was the man shouts at her all the time, he doesn't provide for the house and some excuses but is that true? The truth is that she met another man who is doing well than her husband, the man gives her money at all times, and then she feels her husband is no more what she wants in her life but that is the same man she was ready to die for.
Now, the final truth on divorce is that, in the case of my sister I ended up advising her because that man she thinks is the best might not be as humble as her husband, he might lavish you money but end up beating you every day. Thank God for the advice and now she is living with her husband happily after hearing that, the man she wanted a divorce to go and marry was once married but he was maltreating the wife mercilessly.
On the other hand, I wouldn't advise a woman to endure marriage if things are not going right because this might lead to their death. Some women are lionesses and some men too are lions such that, they would devour themselves which will lead to death so I will sincerely advise that, a divorce can come into play in such situations.
Thank you all for reading through, I specially invite @hannybanny, @ishayachris, and @simonnwigwe to participate in this contest, thank you ad I love you all.
Hola amiga, gracias por tu apoyo y participación.
El mundo ha cambiado, y la visión del matrimonio y del divorcio también, tal parece que ya las uniones no duran para siempre, que es demasiado tiempo, algunas parejas no llegan ni al año.
Concuerdo contigo, el divorcio es necesario cuando hay cosas insostenibles, como el maltrato entre otras cosas.
Gracias a Dios tu hermana escuchó consejo y escogió a su esposo.
Saludos amiga, agradecida por compartir con nosotros tu experiencia y valiosa opinión.
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Your points are all correct, thank so much for the little advice you gave to your sister and she adhered to it for a better tomorrow.
Some other reasons for divorce are conflicts, lack of communication, incompatibility, trouble with finance, extra marital affairs and so on. One need to be careful about it.
Thanks for idea shared.