A Marriage in Full Swing

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In today's world marriage has been the object of many analyses and opinions, many say they do not believe in it, they decide not to get married, others do it but it lasts a very short time, and we could spend a long time defining what each one thinks about it. The truth is that you should not believe in marriage, who you should believe in is the one who established it, some of those who say I will never get married, end up signing a home but simply do not legalize their situation, then it is not being against marriage, you are joining another person and forming a family like the one who gets married, it is being against the one who established it.

So we must be very careful with this because it is not against the paper you are standing on, it is against God. Some people feel fear when they mention the word marriage, but today I want to tell you that marriage is not something to be afraid of, marriage is a step, a commitment that we must take when we love someone and that relationship has reached the necessary maturity to take that step. For a marriage to work what must exist first of all is the commitment, because there must be that intention to move forward together, when obstacles arise together you can overcome them.

The best marriage is not the one that lasts a lifetime, it is true that it would be wonderful that two people who love each other, get married, and give value to that commitment for the rest of their lives, but this does not mean that because they are always together, they are committed, you can spend your whole life next to a person, living in the same house, and each one feel alone.

A full marriage is one in which the two decide to love each other, forgive each other and learn together, that one lifts the other when he/she gets discouraged, it is honoring the covenant they made before God, respecting and understanding each other, and above all that there is willingness of both to maintain that union.

In marriage you need the willingness of both to stay together, it is like when you take the reins of a task and do not lose focus until you achieve the result obtained, wife and husband are that perfect union of God to walk together and build a family that will continue with the process fulfilling what God told man to multiply and fill the earth.

For a marriage to live to the fullest, there is no need for recipes, manuals or magic strategies, what is needed is that both are willing to live in a respectful and kind relationship, full of understanding and love. If each one exercises his or her share of responsibility and puts all their will into it, they will succeed.