UNA RELACION PELIGROSA/A DANGEROUS RELATIONSHIP

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Para nadie es un secreto que las relaciones matrimoniales presentan un grado de dificultad, pero es importante saber diferenciar las situaciones de la vida diaria del abuso. Mucha parejas presentan conflictos pero no por esto puede aceptarse algún tipo de abuso.

El uso intencional de la fuerza física o abusos psicológicos es considerado como violencia y si esto sucede en el hogar se conoce como violencia doméstica, donde la pareja usa la fuerza física o aplica un patrón de comportamiento que se convierte en abuso psicológico, sexual, financiero.

Debes aprender a identificar cuando una relación ha llegado al punto de abuso y puede poner tu vida en peligro.

Es difícil y triste reconocer que cuando una relación llega a este punto no tiene vuelta atrás, la relación debe terminar, pues esto es como una bolsa que se va llenando hasta reventar, nunca una relación de abuso tiene un buen final, es importante que aceptes esto para poder zafarte del peligro, pues aunque es duro terminar una relación seria mas duro que está terminará con tu vida.

¿Que señales te indican que una relación se ha vuelto peligrosa?


1.-Quiere controlar todo lo que haces, comportamientos agresivos, controladores y posesivos.
2.-No te permite reuniones familiares o con tus amistades.
3.-Existen chantajes
4.-Te humilla para que sientas vergüenza
5.-No te permite trabajar
Tiene ataques de ira, ha llegado a romper cosas en la casa.
6.-Te ha golpeado o lo ha intentado.
7.-Te aísla deblas personas que amas.
8.-Te engaña y te culpa de su comportamiento, etc.

El problema de la violencia en el hogar es silencioso, pues cuando es permitido se hace difícil arraigarlo y salir de esa situación, y cuando sales estás lo suficientemente herida psicológica y emocionalmente o tal vez con un daño físico, hasta se puede llegar a la muerte.

Según la OMS 1 de cada 3 mujeres ha sufrido algún tipo de violencia, Si estás experimentando este tipo de situación, debes buscar ayuda profesional de inmediato, el abusador siempre te hará creer que si lo haces acabara contigo pero es lo contrario, si no lo haces tu vida podría estar en peligro.

Es importante que tengas claro que las personas se unen a una relación para ser felices, no para estar heridos, molestos o agobiados .


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It is no secret to anyone that marital relationships present a degree of difficulty, but it is important to know how to differentiate situations in daily life from abuse. Many couples have conflicts but this is not why some type of abuse can be accepted.

The intentional use of physical force or psychological abuse is considered violence and if this happens in the home it is known as domestic violence, where the partner uses physical force or applies a pattern of behavior that becomes psychological, sexual, financial abuse. .

You must learn to identify when a relationship has reached the point of abuse and can put your life in danger.

It is difficult and sad to recognize that when a relationship reaches this point there is no turning back, the relationship must end, because this is like a bag that fills up to bursting, an abusive relationship never has a good ending, it is important that you accept This is to be able to get out of danger, because although it is hard to end a relationship, it will be harder than it will end your life.

What signs tell you that a relationship has turned dangerous?


1.-You want to control everything you do, aggressive, controlling and possessive behaviors.
2.-It does not allow family reunions or with your friends.
3.-There is blackmail
4.-Humiliates you so that you feel ashamed
5.-It does not allow you to work
He has fits of anger, has come to break things in the house.
6.-He has hit you or has tried.
7.-It isolates you from the people you love.
8.-He cheats on you and blames you for his behavior, etc.

The problem of violence in the home is silent, because when it is allowed it becomes difficult to root it and get out of that situation, and when you leave you are psychologically and emotionally injured enough or perhaps with physical damage, it can even lead to death. .

According to the WHO, 1 in 3 women has suffered some type of violence, If you are experiencing this type of situation, you should seek professional help immediately, the abuser will always make you believe that if you do it, he will end you but it is the opposite, if not you make your life could be in danger.

It is important that you are clear that people join a relationship to be happy, not to be hurt, upset or overwhelmed.When you have already released that toxic love, everything will be fresher and more hopeful, you will return to being the woman you were before, you will remember the freedom you felt before having that relationship that only caused you pain.



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