Win Friends

At present, friendship is questioned a lot, most want to demand what they cannot give, and I think that the concept of friendship or what we want to believe about what a friend should be is completely wrong.

Many times we believe that friendship is based on burdening someone with our problems, or having people solve things for us, that pleasant things come out for us because we are friends and get benefits from someone, and although these are actions that friendship generates , is not your base.

Friendship goes further, a friend and even a partner, a brother, someone who is there in support, in love, but it does not mean that he should solve anything for us.

Now it is that same affection that will take action. A friend is a human being, he is not perfect and he can also be wrong, he can also fail, that does not mean that he is not a friend but that he is human and different from us, therefore he can have opinions and behaviors different from ours.

Our concept or what we expect from friendship must change, just as we want to receive we must also be willing to give, life is a spontaneous exchange and whenever we love or esteem someone we want to give our best for that person.

If we want to have friends, we must also be willing to be friends, to give ourselves, to be unconditional support regardless of whether we can solve something for someone, think about being that person's support staff.

A friend will not be able to solve your problems but it will surely be that shoulder to cry on, that you need, the crutches that take you when your legs give you no more, the hug that warms you when the cold makes you shiver, that case with water that It will quench thirst, when you have traded miles of desert.

If you are willing to deliver then get ready to win friends.