That's pretty much the life of every South Asian married woman. Your husband is right, you need a hobby. Something to look forward to every single day. These Pakistani households' endless chores can drain the life out of you. Hire help. I know it's hard but pay no heed to what others say as long as you and your husband are happy.
I have house help wese to but not for 24/7 and these kitchen chores are never ending sometime.
And how can i do that, it's really hard not to get the impact of what others say