Keyword of the week : CHANGES

Are you not satisfied with your life? I guess you need to change and adapt yourself to the changes. The good news is that no one else can do this for you, but you are the one who can bring about this change in yourself.

I always hear people saying

The first step is always the hardest, but you can do anything, well almost so why not.

Is your answer "I want to change everything"? Don't be afraid of it. In the end, you make the necessary changes, whether good or bad, so why not good? After all, this is your life, and you have to make or break it. Whether one thing needs to be fixed or all of them, it can all be done.

Are you stuck in a frustrating situation? It's not the problem but it's a symptom of the problem. You are not to blame for the situation you faced, but you are responsible for how you dealt with it. Just try to analyze what patterns of thinking are holding you back from changing and doing better.

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Knowing yourself is the only way you can change your thinking. If you want to eliminate a problem, you have to eliminate it at its root. So while it may seem like a very long and unnecessary process to change things, it isn't. It is most important to overcome your thinking and your mental blocks before actually making any change.

You have enough power to live the way you want. If you want to believe that you are the champion boxer with a sucker punch, maybe you are, and if not, you can still be. If you want to believe that you are happy, you will be. When it comes to completely changing your life, you are the only person who has the ability to do it.

Things that are making you unhappy Some of them are imaginary. It is true that your job may be very lousy. You may be in a relationship that is about to end, you may be unemployed, or you may be at a stage in life where life has stopped and you are not moving anywhere.

But "how you look at the situation" can turn things around "to make them better." It will become easier. It's very easy to learn, of course; It's not that easy to do either. But knowing that this is the truth and fact of life is half the battle won.

You know that happiness doesn't come from eliminating problems. There are many people who are in the exact same situation as you and consider themselves lucky to be alive. Let yourself take control of your life instead of making excuses to be an innocent bystander. Take control into your own hands. You have understood this.

Let go of unnecessary burdens, whether it's quitting smoking, breaking up with your unloving boyfriend or girlfriend, or leaving your roommate's overcrowded apartment. These things are stopping you from moving forward. It is promoting a negative mindset and works to convert obstacles into huge crises.

It's going to hurt deep inside, but you know you can do it. It hurts to leave your useless boyfriend. Living on your own in a house with a junkyard is troublesome. Dealing with the problems that come with breaking a habit is painful. But you are capable of doing all these things, and it will be for your own good in the end. Quite simply, you probably know that if you need changes in your life, you've got to make them now.

Sometimes things have to get worse before they get better - Marilyn Ferguson

You have to be ready to put in your efforts and work, see the changes coming, and make your life better. Stop being fake. You will see the change in yourself. If you remain who you are, it will not hurt the feelings of others. People can ask questions beyond this, but they don't need an explanation if you don't want to. You are what you are now. If they have a problem with it, it's their own problem.

It's hard to change your life if you don't know which direction to go. Do you know that? Having a hobby, a goal, or a dream to fight for gives you a path to follow (you know that's why I am here on Dream-Steem). So what's your hobby? What would you like to be in the next six months? in one year? Do you see your age as an obstacle? Working on a new project will help you change your mindset about aging.

Do random acts of kindness, it's easier on you and feels better—in addition to making the world a better place. And for a few moments, you forget your problems and concentrate on the problems of others. Helping others gives us more thrills, excitement, and a change, for sure.

Do what you've been wanting to do: You've got your mind right, you've got your body right, and now is the time to do the thing you've been wanting to do. Do the things you've been afraid to do. You have to face that uncomfortable situation. Just one step at a time, no matter how long the road may be to completely change your life.

Re-evaluate from time to time as a regular evaluation is important. Are you starting to feel better? Are things slowly but surely getting better? What is working for you now may not be enough for you in a few weeks. But you're definitely feeling the changes happening in your life.

Refuse to give up. You are in a very precarious position at the moment but one wrong move could put you back where you were.

Focus on positive thinking. Concentrate on doing your work. What else do you need for a positive change in your life?

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