MISUNDERSTANDING

What is relationship without misunderstanding? It will be fake.

Well, sometimes in a relationship either with family members or friends there is bound to be misunderstandings. Some people take it as a life time issue because they think that relationships should only be built on just quarrel free but I tell you that a relationship that does not suffer from misunderstandings is built on false ground.

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I am not your relationship Coach and this is not my regular post but I want to draw your attention to an experience I had.

It was on a sunny day when two life time best friends decided to take a walk because they had been too busy with their work and everything. So they had schedule that day for themselves.

They were enjoying the moment when suddenly they started yelling at each other, it was so tense that people had to gather round to separate them lest the end up fighting but they did not yield to any body's persuasion to stop the quarrel, one by one people left them alone few hours later they both reconciled and continued like nothing ever happened.

I was so amazed and I decided to approach them to ask questions as my curiosity got a better hold on me.

They both smiled and told me that, they can not mention the numerous times they have quarrel with each other but what keeps them going is the bond of friendship. They said it does not matter the many times they have gotten into fights with each other but what matters is the fact that they reconcile at the same spot and settle whatever was the issue.

That alone is what keeps them going no matter the storm, they both have shared good and hard times together and have keep going stronger every day.

Here is what I mean; you fight, yell and even throw things at each other but that should not stop you from reconciling. Stop building fake relationships and start living in the reality. Malice does not pay, it rather hurts and build resentment which will not let you live in peace with yourself and with mankind.

WRITTEN BY - rocknrule111