People make mistakes
When we get angry with someone, we become ignorant! Let's start talking loudly for the purpose of the man! Sometimes I continue to insult and scold him! We don't realize how much those things are hurting the person! There is no greater weapon in this world than words!
The words thrown at someone's head in anger hit the man like an invisible bullet and tear him apart, but there is no sign of that injury and its intensity cannot be measured! If you put medicine called "sorry" on that wound, the wound will not heal! Just learn to adapt!
The pain of physical injury is gradually reduced! But the pain of trauma is not easily reduced! Even after a long time, if you close your eyes in solitude, those words keep ringing in your ears, it is still hard for the first time! It is not easy to forget because even if everything can be forgotten, we can never forget the hurt of the words of the beloved people!
People make mistakes, if someone else makes a mistake, we can move away, but we can't move away because of the mistake of a loved one, because he is a loved one! There is a beautiful word called "Empathy"! Being able to imagine yourself in the place of other people is the only way to make life easier if you can bring empathy in yourself in the time of "Empathy" anger!
What I am going to say to a man is exactly the same thing কি what would it hurt me if that man told me? If the answer is yes, then I should not say the word! I should stop! Or after the time of anger has passed a little alone, then I should explain the matter in a different way so that he does not get in trouble and understand!
Life is very uncertain! I don't know if I will wake up tomorrow morning! In such a precarious life, if you hurt someone by talking, you may not have the opportunity to apologize or correct the mistake! I would rather talk than think! When we are angry our ego wins but we lose ourselves! And I lost people nearby! Anger comes and anger goes away, but when people close to you will not come back!
Written By Alvin Wales
A genuine issue you have raised,Anger has burnt the world many times and still on. A nice post keep it up 👍😊
Alvin, I would like to know you.. if you don't mind, your words are kind