Really happy not working hard?

You have nothing, how can you not go forward with despair.

To be honest, I didn't like reading that chicken soup essay, and I didn't want to write in this area. I always felt that I was a poor student who always talked about great principles and was too self-conscious and shameless, and even if I took the truth. I am orderly, but life is still messy, however, there is no common mark between what you write and what you can do.

Recently, the anti-chicken soto quote on Moments of Friends is very popular. The jokes online are extraordinary and refreshing. I've also reposted some of them. I was very impressed with the phrase "If you work hard, you may not succeed, but it will be easy if you don't work hard." His paragraph, this passage resonates with a lot of people, and many comments like it. It seems everyone is the same. Usually, I drink too much chicken soup, and most of them have a desire to be immune or even nauseous. Sometimes I see things that are more realistic and closer to life. The essence of the truth is very interesting.

Take for example myself, I used to love to collect classic inspirational quotes on the Internet, and even secretly followed several public accounts posting positive energy articles every day, hoping to motivate myself and work hard. However, the results can be imagined. Dreams and reality cannot be confused. The gap in the middle often gets me into negative emotions and I can't get away from it, and I deny myself every day. Gradually I came to understand that chicken soup belongs to someone else, and the reasons are also other people, the splendor of other people's lives has nothing to do with me, and the inspiration and improvement of other people cannot be passed on to me.

From the start, my starting point was wrong. I mistakenly believed that by imitating the experiences that others have gained through experimentation and experience with myself, you can reach the same heights as other people. This shortcut mentality tries to steal other people's results. . The way of life is destined for failure There are no shortcuts in life. It takes a little accumulation and a little hard workOnly by knowing yourself can you more accurately choose the next life path. Truth and experience in other people's mouths may not necessarily be wrong, but they may not suit you. In the bestselling inspiration book on the market, there may not be one in the hundreds of thousands of words in the book that fits your current situation and can help you make future life choices. Therefore, regardless of whether it is a chicken soup essay or an anti-essay. chicken, you have to look at it rationally and listen carefully.

Going back to "Attempts aren't necessarily successful, but they should be easy if you don't work hard." Just look at the first half of the sentence and a lot of people will complain that they have worked really hard. Why didn't they make it?

This has to be analyzed from two aspects. The first is your level of effort. Have you devoted enough time and energy to this goal? Are you trying your hardest to achieve your goals? Still eager to be successful, take time as a deal, hurry up. I know a friend who writes in a short book. He set a goal of writing himself two hours a day, and he wouldn't rest until he finished it. He said that he lasted for more than three months. According to the progress of other authors, he should be awarded the title of short book writer. But looking at himself, the number of likes and follows is still small. He started complaining, became furious, and even gave up writing later. You may feel sorry for him, but I know that he is unlikely to achieve his goal. Two hours a day just to get over it, only to give himself the illusion of hard work. Knowing that the skies are very free, he only uses his cell phone to play games. She didn't think about writing assignments until she went to sleep at night, so she hurriedly turned on the computer and typed on the keyboard. process, he was still watching the phone and chatting, and finally finished two hours. I quickly turned off the computer again, and returned to the unfinished social media conversation. He seldom read the contents of Jianshu, paid no attention to the writings of the Great God Jianshu, and hated reading. It doesn't even know how to modify typos and punctuation before publishing the article. To him, writing was purely to deal with, it seemed like two hours of hard work just for peace of mind.

Effort should be a pleasant thing, but for him, all effort is suffering, all effort is only asking for distress, and its surrender and failure is expected.

Second, what kind of results are considered successful, also take friend A who wrote in a short book as an example. At first, article A was always rejected by the editor, but he did not give up, and kept trying to remain silent. Gradually he increased his mastery of the text. The layout of the articles is also easy to handle, and the number of rejections by editors is increasing. Some, I've even posted directly on the homepage a few times. Even though A is not yet the author of a simple book, his progress is more targeted, isn't it successful?

People are used to defining success too independently. Secularly regard wealth as success, and more subtly as pleasure as success. It seems that everyone has their own set of criteria for success or failure, but I still think that there are many. Today, profit and loss should be used to measure the value of something rather than success and failure. After all, success or failure is the result of a qualitative change, while the advantages and disadvantages are a gradual and quantitative process. Life is not an Xinhua dictionary, and success does not require a single definition.

As for "It must be easy not to work hard", I have to say which is better. In the previous period, the various goals that I set had not been achieved. Seeing that I had not achieved anything, my heart was very anxious and irritable, So I began to believe that your sentence can speak easily without working hard, and started the process of daily regressions. Since pursuing drama is more comfortable than writing, follow drama as you please. I sit at the computer, eat and watch, sleep and watch, and then watch when I wake up. If you want to play with your cell phone, you can connect to a wireless network and plug in the charger to freshen up your crome and social media space in bed. For a while, I stayed in bed except for taking things home and going to the toilet. I ended up living the life I dreamed of in the past, carefree and free to do whatever I want. The most important thing is that no one will come to me and say "You can't be like this". Every day is chasing drama and playing cell phones. I thought I would fall for a long time, but the excitement didn't last long. Only after a few days, I got tired of life like this. I already felt bedridden with irregular eating and resting every day. My physique is deteriorating. I was out of breath as I climbed the stairs, and a long-lost pimple appeared on my face. Not only that, the more sleepy he was, the more sleepy he was. After waking up, his head was still sleepy, unable to concentrate, and his complexion was dark and yellow, like an old man over the age of six. I was surprised to see how I looked in the mirror Why is that? This is definitely the way of life that I longed for before. Finally, after a week of staying at home, I finally couldn't stand it. I started getting out of bed to shower and eat regularly, adjusted my schedule, and kept running. I really realized that not working hard would not only bring happiness, but also more anxiety. And sadness, a lot of hidden happiness in the occasional car ride in the hard work process. In other words, self-discipline is a source of happiness, just as if you went to sleep on a Sunday morning after six days of work,