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RE: [Eng] #club100 Beautiful memories of beautiful days and photography with loved ones

in Urdu Community2 years ago

I'll tell you something: I've never been to a wedding! Of course I know them from stories and films. I have never been there live. In my environment, getting married is not that common, I guess.

Ich verrate Dir etwas: Ich war noch nie auf einer Hochzeit! Natürlich kenne ich sie aus Erzählungen und aus Filmen. Live dabei war ich noch nicht. In meinem Umfeld ist das mit dem Heiraten nicht so üblich, schätze ich.

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 2 years ago 

marriage is necessary in our culture and religion, marriage is holy relation and this relation is one of the life chaning, in my culture, thousand people come to attend marriage ceremony , we celebrate this many days,, relative, friends gathered and enjoy very much, it is holy relation . we arrange this event according to our religion,

Yes, that was also the case in Europe for a long time. In the 20th century, the church wedding then became a ceremony without social significance, as the marriage had to be performed in the registry office for it to be legally valid. Nowadays, couples decide for themselves whether to marry only in the registry office, i.e. formally, whether they want the church ceremony (if at least one of the partners is denominationally bound) or whether to forego the marriage. The latter was my decision, as I see no relevance in a marriage certificate. And I find the idea of getting the consent of "society" for my choice of partner absurd....

Ja, das war in Europa auch lange so. Im 20. Jahrhundert wurde die kirchliche Trauung dann zur Zeremonie ohne gesellschaftliche Bedeutung, da für die Rechtsgültigkeit einer Ehe die Trauung im Standesamt notwendig wurde. Heutzutage entscheiden Paare selbst, ob sie nur standesamtlich, also formal heiraten, ob sie die kirchliche Zeremonie möchten (wenn mindestens einer der Partner konfessionell gebunden ist) oder ob sie auf die Eheschließung verzichten. Letzteres war meine Entscheidung, da ich keine Relevanz in einem Trauschein sehe. Und die Idee, mir die Einwilligung der "Gesellschaft" zu holen für die Wahl meines Partners, empfinde ich als abwegig...

 2 years ago 

respected @weisser-rabe !
I am a Muslim and in my religion marriage is a sacred bond and consent of both parties is necessary in marriage. Sometimes in a marriage parents dear relatives play an important role for the best relationship. Intercourse without marriage is not allowed. In my religion, marriage is a religious duty. Both bride and groom families invite their friends and dear relatives on this occasion. There are many wedding rituals in our society. Mehendi ceremony, Mayan ceremony etc. Preparations start two months before the wedding. At least four to three days on the wedding day, friends and family gather. The purpose of all rituals is to create love and harmony in relationships. The families of the bride and groom are very happy and for many days friends eat and arrange new clothes and beautify in celebration of this auspicious relationship.

In Pakistan, winters are the season for wedding, it'll last till march. We thoroughly enjoy getting ready, eating food and capturing every moment in our camera🙌
Getting married is very common here, if people are getting bored, they'll plan a wedding. We're fun and wedding loving people:p

... if people are getting bored, they'll plan a wedding...

Made my day ;-)) Best reason for marriage: fight against boredom!

Haahhaahahah on a lighter note

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