Several Types of People Who Are Dangerous in Life.

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Who you hang out with will influence your future, without you realizing it, these people are also very dangerous in your life.

What are the characteristics? Here are five types of people that you must and must be aware of in your life:

First, look good by badmouthing other people.
Usually people like this want to look good not by doing good, but by badmouthing other people.

"I contributed one hundred thousand rupiah, he only contributed five thousand rupiah."
"Oh what is all that, all that mask."
Have you ever met this type of person...?
Yes, it seems very good, but if that goodness is added to by vilifying other people, it would be a shame. Who should have received mountains of rewards but because of useless chatter, it was lost.

Also be careful if you are around people like that, because remember that if you are bad-mouthing other people in front of you now, it might be your turn to be bad-mouthed from behind.
Be kind without being bad-mouthing.

Second, Rise to the Top by knocking other people down.
Whoever is successful, surely everyone really wants and really wants to be successful. However, if you succeed by bringing other people down, it's not like that.

Now I want to ask, have you ever seen someone who is really jealous of other people's success, and because they see other people succeed and succeed, they also want to be successful too.

However, because he didn't want to proceed, he ended up using incorrect methods. He doesn't hesitate to slander here, slander there, nudge the right and nudge the left, bringing down whoever is above him.

We often find people like this, in the end they might be successful, but it's guaranteed that they won't last long. This is because success was not built on a strong foundation, it is easy to rise and fall easily if it is not balanced with character.

remember, quick success is okay. This is because nowadays everyone has to move quickly, but fast doesn't mean using instant methods. Being fast doesn't mean you are free to do anything.
Remember, you can climb but don't drop.

Third, feel great and big by minimizing other people.
Everyone is born a great person. However, whether a person looks great or not depends on how he treats others.

Have you ever been around people who always talk bad about other people? The current term is called JULID, aka Envy and envy and a hobby of giving harsh comments to belittle other people.

When you see a co-worker who has been married for years but doesn't have children, instead of offering a solution or prayer or suggestion, they become annoyed and sarcastic.
"So don't get tired of working all the time, or you won't have children. You don't need to pursue a career, it's better to have a work-life balance like me."

Over time, we will become uncomfortable with words like that and in the midst of people who are jealous like that or worse, we might be the ones who catch it.
Remember, you can be big without making others smaller.

Fourth, Feeling always right and blaming others.
Feeling that you are always right is an incorrect action, especially when you are wrong or faced with a problem, instead of accepting it, you instead blame other people.

Remember, when we make a mistake, we must be willing to take responsibility for the mistake, instead of looking for victims and making excuses.

When you are in the midst of people who always blame you, how does it feel...? It must be uncomfortable or even nervous because we might become the target of the next mistake.

So remember, for those of you who feel like blaming other people, try introspecting yourself. If you've done the right thing, great, keep going. However, if it's not true, don't look for other people's faults.
Remember, be right without blaming others.

Fifth, Ambition and selfishness, wanting to move forward with right and left elbows.
Actually, ambition is okay and people who have ambition are good, but if you have selfish ambition, that is, you want to win alone, let alone advance by pushing left and right by pushing the people around you, that's not allowed.

This is the kind of person you should avoid and not only in the world of politics, where friends can become enemies, but in the world of work we sometimes encounter this.

Seen as a friend, but turns out to be a backstabber. Looks like a colleague, but turns out to be willing to get rid of you in order to gain a position.

It's dangerous, yes, the intention may be there. Ambition can also be high, but don't let that be a reason for you to elbow your left flipper right. Remember, you can move forward without losing.

Those are the 5 types of people who You must avoid it and more importantly, don't let it become one of the five characteristics of that person.

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