Easy To Judge People In A Glance But We Should Take Time To Judge Others

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Most of us in the society starting judge people in a glance and sometime judge them because other talk negative about the person. Ask your mind, is it right? As a coin have two parts head and tail so our life also have negative and positive sides.

Let me share a little story from our society. It can enlighten the main topic more clearly. Once there was a girl name Rina and she lives in a decent society where people maintain their class and also gossip about the character of girls. Rina was a bar dancer and according to society she was a bad girl and she also named as call girl, prostitute and so many names and these name are given by the so call decent society.

Rina only dance on bar but she is not a call girl or prostitute. She is a virgin. But who cares? A girl dancing in a bar means she has no character and she is a bad girl. In this society people judge this way people and they never tried to know what make a girl bar dancer and what would be the reason of choosing this as profession.

Rina was in class seven when her mother passed away. She was the eldest child of her parents. She has a little sister and a little brother and they both goes to school now. Rina's father was alcoholic and irresponsible to them so after the death of her mom Rina and her siblings often beg for food to their relatives and neighbors. Rina hates begging but she was not educated enough to do any job for having food and also having food for her siblings.

No one came to help her so she decide to dance in a bar to bear the expenses of her family. Now her father is a ill and always on bed for his illness. Rina dancing on bar to purchase medicines for her sick father and also earn money for her sibling's study. No one from the society came to Rina and asked for help, she is doing self help and holding her self respect and we easily named her or tagged her as a bad girl when she was fighting her own battle of her life.

So before judging others from outside is wrong. We never know what others suffering or what's the pain of other so we have no right to judge them and their situations. That's all I wanted to say. Its easy to judge but we should take time to judge others.

Thank you!

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 3 years ago 

@steemit-fairy,
There are so many characters living with us same like Rina in society.
Peoples are giving simply judgment with out knowledge.
I miss one of the song while reading your post."Landhune" song by Amarasiri peris.

#slbmc

 3 years ago 

Worthwhile to read! ✌

We can not judge somebody from his or her very first appearance to us. We can judge his or her qualities after few days later. Also, I believe that we should not accept what others telling about somebody, without our experience with them.

#slbmc

Wow well defined , thanks for this

 3 years ago 

Well said. I never judge anyone from things that I am hearing from others unless I have experienced it. People must not be judged from his suit, job or money.

Well said my friend 👍

 3 years ago 

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Thanks and welcome but accepted for what?

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