When Things Go Wrong; Be a Stone That Cannot Be Broken So Easily Into pieces
When things go wrong what should I do?. Most of the times, we all feel that everything and everyone we eagerly look forward to taking into advances just go away in vain. The sound makes no sense. But still, we are seeking to take something from the things we do. In situations, we wish to have benefits and we think always about the positive side that we love to have. But we have to keep in mind there is a negative side too. We can not judge the side we are given by any chance. But every time we weight more on to the positive side. There is an utter that if we want something to happen very deeply, it will surely come true. So we try to have it anyway by praying over and over on the same thing.
But still, things go wrong and hopes get hurt. We eventually break apart and get frustrated mind. In the times of that, we involuntarily ask ourselves, why these all happen to me? Why it's only me? Why everything goes wrong with me? Don't I deserve it? After considerable attempts, we face these kinds of hurts and we put ourselves down. The feelings can kill your strengths and can garb revenge into your mind. We start to hate and look at everything in this world negatively. If someone tries to give you hand to get out of the way you have walked, still you don't have a mind to be helped and loved.
When things go wrong all the times, we think that it is not the best time to have good, but we don't even know the times that bad get over. It's just kidding to who has gone everything wrong. We try and try to take out the best of us. We take a look at the others who always having positive and good things. By doing that we start to compare ourselves with others. But it is not the way coz it hurts you more and more. When things go wrong we ask ourselves that what can I do about this? We try to find a way to hang on.
We never mean to lose and defeat. Maybe someone can abandon the energy that is struggling with them. If there is a strong wish to come something true in advance, there can be ways to walk in. But don't try to believe that only the wishing will give you everything but do nothing. A positive mind is something better to keep. But on the other hand, the negative things will teach us how to deal with hard times in our life. It helps to understand the bitter truth about life behind the mirrors of this fancy world. Making your decisions in various directions will drive you to the vast area of experiences. Unless things go wrong we will never understand how hard the situations we have faced so far. We are polished and sharpen in hard and difficult ways.
There is a better thing in everything we do and what we are given. But the way it is given may seem to be soft or hard. If all the things go wrong all the times, we have to be strong and make our way with it. As we cannot change it, we have to adapt accordingly. Negativity is not always as dark as we wish. When we start to walk through the path which we have been given already, it will be a relief to us.
We can never stop at the middle of the journey coz time is always passing by. We cannot stay steady against it. If we stop somewhere, we will miss all the things we are decided to have. Yes, it may be a positive thing or not. But we have to take it. Keep in mind that all the negatives you deal with give you more and more strength to walk ahead. You will not suffer from those harsh things. Maybe you will become a stone one day. Think it is better than not to hit you again to break you so easily into thousands of pieces. You will never erode with the hard storms that are passing you. So this is you and is yourself with all the things that go wrong always.