Pardon Me | BATTLE MONTH | 07

in Sri Lanka-ශ්‍රී ලංකාlast month (edited)
'Pardon me/ I'm Sorry/ My Apologies' are some strongest words that someone can say to someone. As humans mistakes can be happened by our hands. None of us intentionally do anything wrong to anyone. But when we do, we don't think twice about apologizing.

Like I said above, we say 'sorry' when we make mistakes. Why are these mistakes happened by our hands? The answer is 'before we say or do something to someone, we don't think how would we feel if someone said or did the same thing to us conversely.'Yeah, we don't think about it in our side. That's how mistakes happen. Then, it hurts not only the heart of the one being forgiven but also the heart of the one who apologizes. It would be better if we could prevent mistakes from happening before it happens. But it usually not happens because of human nature.However, the end result is that someone is offended. Then we get that and we say 'sorry'. There is really no point in apologizing then.

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There is one way we can say 'sorry' before hurting someone. Imagine that there is a fight over something between you and your sister. But you know that you are right, but your sister is in misunderstood. But there is no point correcting her as she is in so angry with you. At that time she won't listen to you. So, this fight will be end when someone's got hurt. In this situation, we can say 'sorry' whether you are right or wrong. Otherwise someone get hurt. It is enough for you to know that you are right. I'm trying here to say that saying sorry to someone, sometimes may cause to prevent a big fight. Don't ever think that saying sorry/apologies/pardon will decrease your level and don't think twice to say sorry when you did or did not something wrong to someone.

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The point is we say sorry if made a mistake. But also we can say sorry even we didn't make a mistake. We should be wise in some situations and humble to say sorry even we aren't wrong. Then, it may prevent some big problems. That's why I'm saying that sorry is one of the strongest words.🍁

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Yes, I'm totally agree with you. If anyone did anything wrong he/she must not think twice to say sorry. Today, the problem is that people do not like to be second, but if we can practice the good apologizing methods then we can solve lots of problems without time taking.

#slbmc

 last month 

Today, the problem is that people do not like to be second

This is so true. They think that apologizing make them second to others.

 last month 

@sanuri,

That's why I'm saying that sorry is one of the strongest word.

Well done.
Finally you make the most valuable demand for the SORRY.
Really interesting post and It shows how the valve of do some thing with out mistakes and responsibility.
I think perfect persons are never saying sorry.
Because of they never done mistakes.
#slbmc

 last month 

Thank you so much 😍

Because of they never done mistakes.

Yeah they probably don’t do any mistakes. If they do any, they won’t think twice to say sorry.

 last month 

But you know that you are right, but your sister is in misunderstood.

Ohh really?Is this some kind of a revenge?😂 Just kidding.

We should be wise in some situations and humble to say sorry even we aren't wrong.

One of the hardest thing to do but I must train myself to do this since it's a good manner.

Sorry may seems like a one simple word but it has thus magical potential to pacify a situation. That ego we have which made us think "why should I say sorry? I'm not the one who did the wrong" must be vanished.

#slbmc

 last month 

Yeah, that's right. Hope you will be humble to say sorry hereafter😅. Unless you will hurt yourself over stupid things one day.

 last month 

Ohh really? Hope you will also say sorry conversely.😂❤

 last month 

That's why I'm saying that sorry is one of the strongest word.

Yes indeed. As my point of view, this word is strong enough to even prevent a murder. If someone did proper analysis for prisoners, most of them would end their lives in a dark prison due to lack of patience, their ego to pardon their mistakes.

I have seen on many occasions, we all try to move forward with our own ego and not ready to second to others. Actually, saying "sorry" when making a mistake is not a big deal and we all should make our mind setups towards.

 last month 

Exactly. That's is what I'm trying to say here. It seems like a simple word but it strong enough to even prevent a murder. So, we should be humble to say sorry.

 last month 

A very valuable article. Forgiveness is something that not everyone can do. Many are reluctant to apologize to those below them. He lies and apologizes in front of people higher than himself. But the most important thing is to humbly apologize. It is a good quality of him to apologize if he has done something wrong, even if he is superior to or inferior to himself.

 last month 

That's right you got the point. We should be humble enough to say sorry.

Apologising prevents all these big conflicts we see not just with people but with nations. So you are giving a strong message here.

 last month 

Thank you so much. It seems like just a word, but it has the power to stop conflicts.

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Thanks a lot

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Thank you so much