Dare to Cry😿
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Excuses sound best to those who are making them.
Why?......
Because, they never blame themselves while making it up. Have you ever wondered why your not making progress?
If not, then Why haven't you asked?
You must realise who to direct your question to! many people ask the wrong person the right questions. This is why they never get a productive answer.
In times of misfortune and loss, Failures, instantly apportion blames on every other person but themselves.
They say, things like,
If only, he did this on time, this wouldn't have happened....... If only, the rain didn't cause the delay...... If only, my brother answered, when I called.
If only!!!, if only!!, if only!....
To succeed you must cultivate the habit of self-examination, No one asides from you made you fail. People who blame things easily fail because they never acknowledge defeat. They'd rather shift the pain of failure to others through blame games...
When next you fail, Dare to feel the humiliation and embarrassment that comes with it. Dare to cry because for real you messed up!!
Thats the only way you'll develop the desire to learn from your mistakes........
This piece of motivation was inspired by the realisation that failure is part of life. Every successful Trader in the financial market understands that losing is part of winning. The problem is that we fundamentally react to emotions of failure and loss in an exaggerated manner, such that we become prone to self pity, guilt and regrets. Most of us don't know that chance has a crucial role to play in our lives. They don't know that chance cannot be told what to do. It dishes unto all as it wishes... Many don't agree that chance can make or break them, this is because they have this believe that God has planned everything before the beginning of time. However those who understand the role of chance are not surprised by its actions....
Learn to acknowledge the role of chance in your success and failure.
Just like the renowned physicist, Albert Einstein once said, "Coincidence is Gods way of remaining anonymous"
Fail or succeed, it doesn't matter all that matters is that you keep pushing, and never quit. I will end with a shout out from Martin Luther King junior "By all means keep moving forward!"
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Until next time. By for now!