Know the difference between love and pampering of children

Good morning great people of parent club: hope you're all having a good day:

Its a lovely Monday morning and i strongly believe every parent is out there striving for a better future for his children.

Today lets talk about love and pampering of children..

Firstly what is love: love can be seen as an intense, strong and deep affection for one another.

However the love i'm talking is not the love between husband and wife nor the love between girlfriend and boyfriend !
I'm actually talking about the love we have for our children.

Is good to love our children deeply and show concern, however we should know the difference between love and pampering. Love is good but too much pampering is totally bad.
1: pampering creates weakness this is because most children believe others should do everything for them! This tend to make them very lazy

2: one of the greatest gift you can give to your children is to make them develop the ability that they're capable: capable to take responsibility, capable to do things on their own E. g a female child who is up to the age of assisting her mother wash plates refuse to do so because of too much pampering,

Let me further clearly define what i'm trying to say about avoid pampering, or too much pampering!

I'm actually not talking about love, affection, feeling, emotion and connection. Giving hugs is not pampering. Giving compliments is not pampering. Taking your children to school daily is not pampering.

Pampering is doing things for our children that they are perfectly capable of doing for themselves.
This is what we should avoid as parents.

Thank you for reading, commenting and upvote
I am @mreasy