Well, it's not my first year in the temple but still can't quite leave.

What I have done to get along for over 20 years is take all my baggage, pack it up, and send it over the cliff. Screw my baggage, happy wife, happy life.
I'd love for both my wife and I to learn the technique but I'll have to make her think its her idea. It would do her so much good.
one love