Im confused steem Help me out plz!!!!!!!!

So i just dont understand steemers.I seriously have put out some really good heartfelt posts and i havent gotten not even 1 upvote hardly at all and i dug deep and looked at thousands of posts and some of the posts i have seen that have made hundreds of dollars were absolute crap talking about nothing worth anytbing what the hell am i missing here is there something um not pressing or tagging like wtf do i do plz help me