We succeed if we change our way of thinking

"Everything you want, wants you"!

If you do not mind, I invite you to spend 10 minutes time (perhaps the time you will read this material) about the wisdom of this message. They say it is the quintessence of the so-called "Law of Attraction."

The Law of Attraction concerns the way of thinking and our own thoughts that possess the power and speed of light movement. The way of thinking helps to overcome any barriers and ultimately succeed in the way that we have embarked on.

You will say, "Great work! Everyone thinks about their success, but some succeed and others do not. "

This is what some of the students said, which every year started with a little bit of learning for my higher education institutions, which I have called "Motivation and Personal Career". Students are on the doorstep of their graduation, and learning is designed to help them think a more useful way for them when it comes to their careers.

Among them there are those who prefer not to take responsibility for their own career (for which a career, meanwhile, they think is tantamount to a "hierarchy increase") and refuse to change this way of thinking with all sorts of excuses - they were not to blame that no one cared about them, they wanted to have a career, but someone prevented them, they wanted to develop, but in the companies did not give them this opportunity and so on.

Why do we succeed if we change our thinking in the direction of success?
Because the outer world of man reflects his own inner world. This is noted by the personal development experts. Check out some of them.

Brian Tracy, "100 Absolute Business Success Laws":

"Nothing can happen to you in the long run if it does not match something inside you. If you want to change or improve anything in your life, you need to start by changing the inner aspects of your mind.

This correspondence is called "mental equivalent". Your greatest responsibility in life is to create the mental equivalent of what you want to experience in the outside world ...

Your setup, your health and your material success are a reflection of the way you think most of your time. "

Jack Canfield, "Principles of Success":
"One of the decisive strategies of success is to behave as if you are already where you want to be. It means thinking in a certain way and feeling like people who have already achieved their goals.

To act "as if ..." means sending powerful commands to your subconscious mind, which begins to search for effective ways to achieve your goal. It programmed the reticular activation system in your brain, which began to record everything related to success, and sent strong messages to the universe that you would definitely want to achieve this ultimate goal. "

Here's a quick, one story from Jack Canfield's book, The Principles of Success.

During his evening walk, a man came across a man who had fallen on his knees under the street lamp to look diligently. He asked him what he was looking for, and he said he had lost his key.

The walking man decided to help, squatting, and they both started looking for the lost key. They searched, searched, found nothing.

Then the man who wanted to help said, "Are you sure that you lost the key here?" And the other man replied, "No, I lost my key home, but I'm looking for it because it's brighter."

Well, so - when we are looking for the reasons for our failures outside of ourselves, we can not "fix" it, although we can find people to ask for help. But if we take a hundred percent responsibility for ourselves, it means we have changed our way of thinking.

Is there a formula for personal 100% responsibility?
According to Jack Canfield, there is such a formula. He taught her from a familiar psychotherapist. The formula is as follows:

The Event + The Chance = The Result

Let's say it in other words - every result in life (whether it be success or failure) reflects the way we respond to previous events.

We can blame everything that surrounds us - the economy, the system, the ruling, the poor education, the bosses, the colleagues, the family ...

And what? Will we change things?

No, because such thoughts restrict us. We will waste time excusing our own inaction, instead of rethinking ourselves and the event (situation) we have encountered.

Canfield advises to change the positions of the two collectors by first putting our response (ie our own perceptions and thoughts) and then the event to get the desired result.

The Event + The Chance = The Result

How to help?
Calling our imagination to help. Human consciousness does not distinguish between reality and idea. Therefore, if we visualize (we present ourselves) the success we are aiming for, we will activate our own behavior and focus directly on the goal.

Let me tell you that this is what is called "motivation".

In summary
"Everything you want, wants you!"