**Never tell him what to do to anyone**

you remove a person from experience

Remember your life: no matter how many times your parents warned you, how many times your friends will warn you of the consequences of an unpleasant situation, you learned an important lesson in life only when you ended up doing what they told you not to do. Until then, you simply did not take the situation seriously. The same thing happens to other people. Therefore, do not prevent a person from learning from their own mistakes.

The situation will be repeated with this person

All the problems that fall on our lives happen to us so that we can acquire more experience in it and the next time we are able to resolve a situation calmly. Until we draw conclusions and learn to deal with a specific problem, it will be repeated over and over again.

Your help can only make the problem worse

Unfortunately, very often, when we try wholeheartedly to help a person, in the end, we only get the opposite effect and everything goes worse. And that is because, analyzing the problem and looking for the best solution, we rely on our own personal experience. But often, we do not take into account other factors of a subjective nature. And if a solution ever worked for us, this does not mean it works under other circumstances and conditions, like, for example, with your friends.

you take away a person of social relevance

For us to have confidence in ourselves, we need to feel our own social relevance: this is perceived when they value us, take our words seriously and respect us as people.

If you are used to constantly interrupting others, making your own adjustments more clearly, of course, with good intentions, then it is better to leave it as soon as possible. First, because in this way you force another person to doubt themselves, and then, at least, you can end up bothering others with your impressions.

Telling people weak

The constant help from others generates insecurity in oneself because everything is solved only when someone intervenes, and without external help, nothing can be solved, no matter how many times you try.

Do not prevent a person from following his own path. It is she who must learn to achieve her goals despite difficult circumstances. After all, if someone has done it, this person will definitely get it.

The person will always be waiting for the help of third parties

From one moment to another, the fairy godmother will come to turn a pumpkin into a carriage ... But, unfortunately, no. Unfortunately, we do not live in a Disney story and for the problem to change in some way, we have to do something about it.