So true a lot of invisible illnesses that people do not understand , the person with the illness is usually deemed lazy , and "they just need to get over it" What other people don't understand is just because you look okay on the outside doesn't mean you aren't dealing with something thats so painful you cant even imagine just getting up from bed, that you cant , sleep , eat , move, read , draw , nothing . you are in so much pain you want to die. But people still think " oh nothing is wrong with them , they are a hypochondriac," or " They look fine whats their problem wish I could lay around all day like them" when its not the case sometimes our beds are like our prisons , we wish we could do so many other things, but its sometimes to painful. It sucks and its sad , people dont understand a thing unless they are put ion your shoes.. Ive heard more times than I can count in my life "ohh she came out of her cave" When someone who is dealing with something like that hears those types of things it makes things even worse. anyways i am wishing you many moments of peace and I understand everything you just talked about. If you ever need to talk I am always around !