Single Parenting, How You can succeed

in #health6 years ago


If you are a single parent, I hope that this will help you not to only succeed in your demanding role but also to do with joy and contentment. To be sure, that can be a big challenge in today's rapidly and uncertain world.

The article will focus on five areas.

Seek out Support

Look for support from trusted relatives and friends. Why not make a list of people whom you can call on for help, whether for child care, transportation, home maintenance, or emotional support? And keep the list current. Also, see what assistance is available through government and nongovernment agencies.

The non-custodial parent, especially the father can help if he has legal access to the children and is responsible and willing to assist.

When you give your children tasks appropriate to their age, you help both yourself and them. Work teaches children to be responsible, and a good work ethic will be invaluable later in life.

Be a Good Communicator

Encourage your children to communicate with another and never to go to bed angry with a sibling. What is more, they should be taught the silent treatment.

Be patient with your children, have the habit of listening to them first before talking and be calm and relaxed as possible even when a serious matter comes up, when answering them, you should also teach them the need to be patient too during communication.

know your children as they have different communication quality, some are reserve while others are talkative, this will also help you know the best method to communicate with them.

Do not confuse the role of parent with that of a friend by making them your confidant. Maintain your dignity and show your maturity and stability.

Children need love as much as food and drink! So regularly reassure them of your love in word and in deed! They, in turn, will feel not only more secure but also more willing to talk with and obey you

Set Sound Priorities

Stick to your priorities, and learn to manage your time and finances accordingly. For instance, your child health is important, so use your hard earned money buy nutritious food, which better than spending your resources on medical bills

Set Clear Boundaries

Be firm and be true to your word, An Australian study revealed that children often misbehave when parents are unable to say no and when they constantly give in to their children.

Do not feel guilty about your situation as a single parent as it can cause you to be a permissive parent

Be consistent in the application of discipline, as this can help prevent behavioural and emotional difficulties in children.

Establish Good Moral Values

Love is long-suffering and kind. When parents display that kind of love, their children thrive. The principles help to establish a climate of trust and respect in our homes.

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