People approval

Hey everyone , as my first post on steemit i wanted to talk about peoples approval . Most people think they need other people approval in making choices. I know we all had the "Im not sure about this , let me ask this person if i should do this ". What people dont realize that you dont anyone approval for anything if you strongly that you can do something DO IT. 9 times out of 10 most people will tell you that you cant do it & that often discourages people in making choices. I was often told i couldnt do this or i couldnt do that. For years i would ask other people for their approval in the choices i made & most of the time i would miss a big opportunity in bettering myself. The moment i stop asking people "should i ?", i realized i held the key to my own happiness . Basically what im trying to say if you strongly feel like you could do something DO IT ON YOUR OWN.