Only basic goodness can bring technique to life

Focusing on technique is like studying at the last minute, just for the exam. one at a time you're doing well, or you might even get good grades, but if you really want to master your subjects or develop an educated mind, honest effort is what you need to do day in and day out.

Have you ever thought how ridiculous it would be to try to improvise on a farm?

For example, forget about planting in the spring, linger all summer, and hurry in the fall to harvest the crop. The field is a system Natural.

We make the effort and the process continues. What is sown always reaps; There is no shortcut.

Ultimately, the principle also applies to human behavior and relationships. They are also natural systems based on the law of

collected. In the short term, in an artificial social system like school, you can manage if you learn to manipulate the rules set by man, to "play the game".

In shorter human interactions, personality ethics can be used to confuse and make favorable impressions through charm and skill in pretending to be interested in other people's hobbies.

There are quick and easy techniques that can work in short-term situations. But the lines

Secondaries by themselves have no permanent value in long-term relationships. Ultimately, without deep integrity and strength of character

Basically, life's challenges bring out real motivations, and failure in human relationships replaces short-term success.

Many people with secondary "greatness", that is, with social recognition of their talents,

they lack "greatness" or primary goodness in their character. A little sooner or a little later, it will show up in all of your long-term relationships, whether it's a business partner, spouse, friend, or
teenager in identity crisis. He is the character who communicates the most eloquently. As Emerson said, "You're screaming so loud in my ears that I can't hear what you're saying."

Of course, there are situations where people have strength of character but lack communication skills, and that

no doubt, it also affects the quality of relationships. But the effects are side effects.

Ultimately, who we are can be conveyed far more eloquently than anything else.