This is a great point, and a great perspective to look at life. Gardeners will comment that you don't become a real or master gardener until you have killed at least a 1000 plants. That whole time that you didn't keep a plant alive you are learning. IF you are lazy, you will never kill 1000 plants. You will try to grow vegetables or flowers one time, and then give up when you fail. But the Real Gardener will keep working and learning and trying until they have much success!!

I have a few tips for you......:

• find a community. Maybe join the @minnowsupport project.

• comment and follow other's articles for your first 1-4 months here more than you do your own posts. This will actually help you to gain Followers. And improve and refine your Posting style(by seeing other's good examples and bad examples).

• don't plan to get rich. If you come for money, it will probably be a struggle.

• it will still be a struggle when you are new.... for 2 or 3 months. As you meet more steemians and ask questions and figure things out, it will get easier.

• only Post original work. Many new Steemians get into trouble when they copy and paste things from Google or from the internet, AND IT IS NOT their photo, writing or work. IF you can't post your own things, better not post. Otherwise @cheetah will get suspicious!

• comment and make friends, but don't ask "Follow me" or "please Upvote me" Maybe after you have become friends... maybe. But never as your first, second or third comment to them. Never!

• Use appropriate tags. If the tag doesn't match. Don't use it. Tags are important to help people find what they are looking for. Misusing tags causes many problems here on Steemit.

• have fun!

I am a community volunteer. I try to stop SPAM and trash and things that hurt Steemit. IF you see anything like that, please feel free to let me know, I will look into it!