Well said. You left out the tears, but they are between the lines. The best con men/ladies see you first and can adjust instantly in any direction, like dragonflies. I used to think that I had the quickest draw in the West. Until I got shot down a few times. The experience is a bit like the boxers' line: you don't see the one that gets you. I have the faintest bit of admiration for their skill, but, people out there: listen to Caitlin! Don't play their game! The only defense that works is to get away and stay away!