well, nobody said I cant, thats why I did!
(instead of only considering: pros and cons, and what if I.... =)
you just never know what other ppl jave in their heads, right?

just one example I may came up with, I can imagine you thinking of it like that, "This guy is probably too lazy even to ask for himself, to drop a few lines, so -- he will not receive any trust from me..." xD

ok, please have a double thankyou from him and me for now! laters.