Being an iconoclast is never easy. Most people enjoy the status quo because it provides a sense of security. Likewise, stepping outside of the conversational comfort zone and discussing something one does not know much about can be a real challenge. Most people are dealing with an almost paralyzing fear of being judged and then found lacking. Also you appear to be ... I don't really know you ... a very intense listener. Many people do not like to be observed that way.

Not always being on a comfortable wavelength with people comes with being unique but it is also important ... I think ... to remember almost everyone has something they can teach you. I find an openness can elevate and alleviate what would otherwise be a painful conversational moment. That said ... knowing when to say nothing is golden too. With that ... I'll say no more:)