I enjoy this perspective, and will play devil's advocate for a moment. The great Socrates mentions somewhere (forget which text) that our reality is a combination of opposites. This seems to be what you are getting at, but our interpretations of what this means are completely different, which I think is really cool. I'd argue that since life is a combo of these opposites, after you average them together, we essentially are all always in the middle. Life goes on these oscillations, but I find the middle very comforting. I enjoyed reading this, keep it up!