Yup I'm just jabbing at the situation, someone's bound to be at the top of the earner's list and get flak for pretty much just being there lol so it's funny.

we have to remember the actual world and every day things like family and meals and meeting with friends and sports etc

Lol seems like you've experienced this First time for me.

There is also cryptoctopus's method - he build himself a fan list of devoted quality commenters and he upvotes them automatically - it might not be personal like a manual upvote and a comment, but in time of stress it can help you reward your faithful commenters even without investing the time needed.

I think might've read up on that but forgot about it. He always has good ideas :)