How to Deal with Mother in Law + Bonus jokes

injiskitchen (66)in #funny • 7 years ago (edited)

Good afternoon steemit friends,

I'll open my subject today with two funny jokes :

- A woman went to visit her mother-in-law and she forgot her cell phone at home, so she wants to make a call to her husband, she took her mother-in-law's Cell phon to make a call, she's typing the number of her husbend, the number appears with the name "The bitch's husband".

- A spanish lady told her friend : what did you do with your mean mother-in-law ?

She replayed : i present her a red dress, and booked her a ticket in front seat at bulls wrestling.

Being in the main subject, are you one of those unusual cases who feel they couldn’t function without her or are you the gritting teeth, holding back, secretly whispering a mantra type. She’ll go soon. She’ll go soon. She’ll go soon.

The wife's relationship with her mother-in-law is usually tense as she feels the daughter-in-law has stolen her son, while the wife feels that her mother-in-law wants her get divorce from her husband.

Center for Family Research and an organization called the Stand Alone Institute has found that rifts between parents and their son’s wife are among the most common reasons for family estrangement.

The study, which was based on the responses of more than 800 men and women in England who had little or no contact with their families, found that divisions between parents and sons lasted a third longer than those between parents and daughters. The issues most commonly listed as “very relevant” in the breakdown of relationships with daughters included mental health problems and emotional abuse.

During the research - conducted over two decades - women accused their mothers-in-law of showing unreasonably jealous love towards their sons.

In turn, mothers-in-law complained that they were excluded from their sons' lives by their wives.

For instance, a lot of daughters-in-law assume that no matter how modern their mothers-in-law are, they are judging them based on the standards of traditional housewives: the ability to keep a clean house, be a good cook, and raise respectful children. At the same time, mothers-in-law often interpret the decisions of their daughters-in-law to do things differently as a rejection of their own choices. Daughters-in-law can be very sensitive to anything their mothers-in-law say about the appearance of the house or the behavior of the children and criticizing daughter-in-law to her son.

So today i'll give you good advices to avoid any troubles and how to deal with your mother-in-law :

1- Do not expect your mother-in-law to treat you as her son and accepts her vices and adapt it.

2- Keep in mind that problems are normal and inevitable, so that the smallest problem will not cause you confusion, try to stay away from anything that might create a conflict between you or provoke it to start a fight with you.

3- Be frank without hurt her feelings or beyond the limits of polite.

4-You should get your husband's support: It is important to support you in correcting the relationship between you and his mother, because that will ultimately benefit him.

5- Talk to her and ask her to tell you about your husband in his childhood, and about the memories of her youth, talking strengthens relationships .

Finally, daughter-in-law don't worry you'll be a mother-in-law some day ha ha :D .