Friendship of Those Who Don't Talk
When a person reads a lot, listens to good things a lot and reflects on them, he/she definitely gets cold from empty things and empty talk, and his old friends who talk nonsense feel boring. At the same time, he gets bored when the places he enjoys when he is alone are filled with empty talkers. I have this a lot of time.
"When will you retire?" Don't you get bored of people who often ask?
How do I balance my budget this month? While he was thinking, while meeting his friend from 20 years ago and rejoicing, he was like, "You have a lot of money, don't you?" Don't you get bored when he asks? Of course, I get bored with these empty conversations.
A memory that you disposed of and forgot due to economic trouble years ago, "does it stay? "Wouldn't you get bored with your relative who asks out of the blue and insists on his question?
What does one wonder about our retirement? What is the use of learning the material things I have for that person? Why would a relative wonder about that item that I forgot years ago? What will he get when he finds out? Aren't these empty things? Aren't they empty talks?
Our friendship was built on solid foundations, as we did not insist on talking about material things and things that others did not want to talk about. Our friendship was built on solid foundations because we never reflect our own financial strength or weakness to our environment, do not worry about the private situations of others, focus only on our own mistakes, and do not ask our friends about their private affairs unless they want to.
Empty talk, gossip, and indulging in other people's private affairs are always harmful. With the questions we ask unnecessarily, we may lose people who will become our friends over time. Therefore, let's try to talk nonsense and not deal with empty people.
If one is to be curious, let him balance them by wondering about his own strengths and weaknesses. Strengthen your weaknesses. By learning to speak well, he should distance himself from empty talk and try to instill good virtues in people so that he will be happy. Wouldn't it be more beneficial for us to learn the success secrets of people who have been successful in life, instead of wondering about his special works? That's what I do and I really benefit from it. You can also benefit.
When we stop talking nonsense, we become people who make us love ourselves by spending more time on logical and nice speaking, with effective communication and by listening and understanding the person in front of us. People definitely benefit from those who tell nice and useful things. If someone doesn't know, someone knows. If we can't find people listening to us, then let's keep quiet and let this word find its place. "If you know words, tell them to take a lesson, if you do not know words, shut up and they will think you a man."
I wish our beautiful friendship to last a lifetime.