Confession...correct me if im wrong or not to be dissaponted

One of my best friend in highchool ask me to be a godmother of her daughter, and i proudly say yes, its cute right?😍😍

They live from another city of denmark they called aalborg and its too far for me to go since i live in copenhagen,

But they told me to go alone and my husband is not invited 🤫(is not a problem)🤫the reason is they never meet my husband yet thats why they told me to goalone. now i have a doubt if i go or no.. im a bad wife if i go without my partner.. (in his part everytime he have event he always invite me to go with him.)
Im a bad friend also if i dont go to them since i say to them yes i love to be a godmother to your daughter.😔😔🤕🤕.any concern?
Cheers