It does not cause forgiveness, but ...
Some of us have been hurt, and at that moment, when wounded, we get a feeling of hatred, pain or sadness. There are no lost provocateurs who have complained, but what is that?
IT'S NOT ABOUT FEELINGS
FOR-GIVE is a compound word, it has a prefix: FOR, which adds value to the word that follows, in this case, GIVE, which means: donate. Therefore, to forgive is to give a very valuable gift. That gift has an impressive healing to our soul.
Perhaps that is true, that the person who harms "Does not deserve" your forgiveness, but is that the forgiveness is that person's, it is more for your benefit than the other. Since the rancor has been pressed from their thoughts, but we do not have the power to change what happened in the past, but I can move forward to the future. Do not forgive to stay in that past and not be treated as "Do not feel like doing it", but a decision that suits you and takes away the burden you carry.
Yes I know. It's not easy No one said anything, but if it does release it, it will do you good. Start opening your mouth and say "I forgive you", you do not have to be in front of that person to do it, do it alone first and say it out loud, that way you can listen to yourself. This will bring healing progressively.
LET'S BE HONEST
Life is too short for a person or a moment in the past to leave us there stagnant, we must move forward. There is a long way ahead. It's true and I say it again, it's not easy, but yes, what other option do you have to move forward and get out of that stage?
Friend, life goes on and time does not stop, Do it for your own good, without noticing the time is still advanced and you have already lost enough. There is a better life for you, come out of the 4 walls of spite and observe the sun that dawns for you. Decide today to give a genuine forgiveness. Decide for you Decide well. I know what the end to achieve I believe in you. I send you a hug from a distance.