I know you think you're speaking for all women here, but you're not. There are countless [female] ex-feminists that have moved away from this victim mindset and realised that true egalitarianism is the way forward, not feminism.

"So why do you think men have such a hard time seeing women as people, rather than objects of sexual desire?" - nice generalisation there... but if we're being honest you should be saying why do men and women have such a hard time seeing the opposite sex as people, rather than objects of sexual desire? Because some women do this just as much as some men.