A suggestion for you...
Spend some time thinking about how nice it feels to easily give your daughter everything she needs without caring about cost - because you can.
Don't obsess. Just accept it and be grateful for being fortunate to always have more than you need. Then slip that picture of yourself and the feelings with it into a side pocket of your mind.
This will "put in your order" to the universe, and it will conspire to make it more of who you are; more of your reality.
Do that and you will be delightfully surprised what happens for (and to) you, my friend.
Namaste, JaiChai
Thanks for the advice! Some useful suggestions!