Still Together
This is an update for anyone who read/upvoted/commented/prayed for me.
My husband and I disagreed about how to handle the CPS visit. I wanted to fight back and tell them to take a hike, my husband wanted to let them in. We went back and forth about it all day. Since we didn't know what was going to happen, I took this picture.
I should tell you what the concern is now so you get a better understanding of his reasoning. He is on probation. He takes my ADD medication sometimes. That is all! I told my mom. (aka the backstabbing self-rightous over imaginative over reactive meddling hypocrite) Either way that is breaking his probation and he was convinced he'd be going to jail one way or another. He thought because of his probation he should cooperate with the authorities. He was also convinced that the hammer would come down harder on us all if we didn't let them in and talk to them...
I respected his wishes and we let them in. Did they:
Ask tons of questions? Yes.
Search the house or ask for a tour? No.
Talk to my kids? My son.
Arrest my husband? No.
Take my kids away? Thank God no!
Question my ability to homeschool? Yes.
Suggest I am homeschooling to avoid truancy laws? Yes.
The police officer told him he had until the end of next week to make an appointment with a mental health professional and gave me a medication lock box. There will also be pill counts in the future.
The social worker said she has 60 days to determine whether or not the kids are safe. She's coming back Tuesday to talk to the rest of the children. The detective may or may not accompany her.
In the meantime I am seeking out legal services. I can't afford a lawyer, but I'm trying to find services for low income people. I will keep everyone up to date here on Steemit as this unfolds.
Edit: I can't find free lawyers for this kind of case in Wisconsin, but I found a website where I can consult with one, and he said to log all of my activities pertaining to the care, well being, and education of my children. Also to take pictures of the food in my fridge and pantry. I have started my log this morning.
Thank you @canadian-coconut, @fishyculture, @familyprotection, @joe.public, @anouk.nox, @enjoywithtroy, @markwhittam, @eco-alex, @kafkanarchy84, @thethreehugs, @apanamamama, @miklkent, @paradise-found, @jlsplatts, @boodles17, @janicechua, @crosheille, @lucylin, @bubke, @bowentroyer, @robertandrew, @thekittygirl, @nurhayati, @eftnow for your prayers and support. It meant a lot to me. Instead of commenting individually to all of you what happened, I decided to write this post and tag you. Hope you don't mind! :)
Thanks for reading!
Love, snowpea ❤
“Whether or not the kids are safe”
Wow, what a statement!! I’ve seen a lot of stories about parents being harassed after they decided to homeschool. Which is rediculous!! Glad to head this first encounter went well and may the next be better.
Praying for your family.
I know, it's completely obvious that my kids are safe. I truly think if the kids were in school, this wouldn't even be an issue. Thank you for your prayers! :)
Thank you for the update as I was concerned.
You and your family are in our prayers.
Thank you :)
STAy strong. We will be continue to pray. Thank you for the update
I appreciate your prayers, thank you! :)
I am glad to read an update. It makes sense that your husband had that reasoning knowing the background a little. I know it has to be scary to let them in and not know what is going to happen next. Know that we are praying for you. I hope that you can find some legal help soon. It's crazy that she told you she has 60 days to decide if the kids are safe. Like you'll be able to rest in the next 2 months. I wonder if she'll extend that time when the 60 days is up...just to keep you hanging. The games they play...
Thank you for your prayers @apanamamama! I really don't know what's going to happen from here on out, hopefully it's not extended.
I was just reading this and the other posts about it! I'm so sorry this has happened to you, I know how stressful a situation like this is. But I am sure that it will all work out for you guys. They didn't tour the house, so to me that means they didn't have a concern about that when they first entered. I wish you all the best with this and hope they disappear as quickly as they came into your lives. Much love from Ireland.
Thank you so much for this update @snowpea! I kept checking your blog looking out for one. I can definitely understand now why your husband felt it was best to cooperate with the authorities. It must have been very intense and nerve wrecking for him. I am so glad to hear all of your family is still together and I’ll be praying it remains this way. I hope after their Tuesday visit everything will be left alone and you all can get back to your normal lives and activities.
I also hope you will find affordable legal services. God Bless you all, you have a lot of people praying and supporting you~ ❤️
It's been very encouraging, seeing everyone supporting our family in this. Thank you so much!
I am so glad you all feel encouraged ❤️
It is a terrible situation to be in, but you are doing the best thing you can being strong for your family and taking care of them all.
#thealliance
Tough times call for tough people I guess lol! ;) Thank you for your support.
Wow thank goodness everything went well
Sort of, they did question my homeschooling. I'm pretty concerned about that, even though I'm completely within my rights.