Seen And Not Heard: Family Protection Series #2
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Hello Steemians!
The article I am about to share with you is the second article I have written for @familyprotection. Below you will read about my very first experience with a government child protection agency. The experience was, not surprisingly, lacking in professional integrity and ethical decision making.
I must have been around eleven years old at the time, though I cannot remember precisely. My mother was very sick, unable to leave the hospital bed that had been set up in her living room. Since she was unable to care for me I was sent to live with my mothers sister and her husband in Regina Saskatchewan. My aunt was a travel agent and her husband, my "uncle", was a window salesman, they were fairly well off. They had a big house, 2 cars, seemed like typical middle class Canadians.
My "uncle" had a habit of beating my up when he was angry, he punched me in the head a lot. One time after I had refused to take the Ritalin they were forcing on me I managed to dodge one of his punches and he broke his hand on the wall behind me. My aunt would watch and not do anything about it. Eventually I started to make a scene and demand that I be put in a foster home or I was going to run away. I was very serious about leaving and by that point I was very angry. A social worker was called and I explained to them that I was being hurt and didn't want to be there any more. I told them I was scared and that this man continually beat me while my aunt stood there and watched. My aunt and uncle both denied that anything happened and said I was lying for a reason I no longer recall. Regardless I was placed in a foster home as I had requested. I thought I had gotten away from him but apparently placing me in that foster home was just to teach me some kind of lesson because that only lasted a week before they put me back with my aunt and uncle without any further conversation with me. After that I was not given another opportunity to tell people what was happening to me until after my mother died, at that point i chose simply to leave but I have never forgotten what was done to me or how CPS in Saskatchewan sent me back into a violent situation after I told them that I was being hurt and abused.
Children everywhere are either being torn from loving arms or intentionally being placed in harms way and these agencies that are given so much power by the governments are abusing that power and causing irreparable damage wherever they go.
I hope that by sharing my experiences I can bring hope to a broken soul and warmth to ease the icy grip of despair.
Thank you for reading my story, I will have another one to tell soon.
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CPS seems to do the exact opposite of what the child needs so much of the time.
If they are fine with their parents, they get taken away
and if are not safe with their parents/caretakers, they are left there to suffer.
Thanks for sharing your important experiences here with us.
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Thanks for sharing
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Your story really puts me in ma tears. I've been through similar situation before. never to worry because God is in control and you know ma friend nothing last forever.
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Terrible that you had to go through this.. I am sorry that the place that should have been a safe place for you, was the place you wanted to escape. It is stupid that when a child tells CPS theirselves that it gets beaten up and WANTS to be placed, they return you after a short period to those animals, but a loving family that doesnt do this can fight sometimes years to get the children back.. Unbelievable how they operate.. Thanks for sharing!
It is very sad that in most cases they have to suffer domestic violence and above all do not have the ability to approach someone who helps the infants when they pass by that time. thank you for sharing your story, we appreciate that you do it because we know that emotionally although it happened years ago, there are still traces
there are a lot of children who suffer violence from the bosom of their family and can learn that this is a way to show love, by subsequently establishing relationships they expect to be attacked again and many of them end up dying in that way. I have made a post about psychological suggestions for parents who go through the separation of their children as a result of CPS I hope it is useful