Been a feminist doesn't mean we are men haters or they are set of women who don't like to cook. Been a feminist means we all matter equally.. That what a man is given because he has a penis, a woman should be given too.
Talking about patriarchy I don't give into that because have seen women been deprived of their rights, freedom and joy all because of it..

And this is one of the reasons I do recommend this books out to people
The first one in the picture..
It's a little but powerful book and am sure if you do read it maybe your pespective might change..

Thanks.