I used to have an open door policy for everyone. Now I am more selective. I learnt to treasure more the time I have with my close ones and prioritize things. Later on when I discovered my next door neighbours were extremely intrusive and annoying I went to a closed door policy. ;0)))
I agree about being selective...especially these days. Lol oh wow that stinks when your neighbors are that way . I get it though, you have to do what you have to do to have peace ;)