Compassion For Your Mother

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Your mother is growing older. Her body is changing, and sometimes this change a weakening of parts of the body,sometimes it means pain.

Most of us try not think about aging. We know that eventually it will happen to us, and it is easier not to think about it. But by avoiding it because of our own anxieties.

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Many older people say that they feel like a young person. Their minds have not changed. Their feelings are the same. The pattern of movements, every muscle and nerve in each part of the body is stored in their mind.

Their body, however, is unable to execute the movements. Your mother may be afraid of aging. It is very frightening when parts of her body stop working, or work only with pain. Or, she may accept her aging peacefully. Whatever her feelings, you can be there for her empathically.

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Malay Language

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Ibu anda semakin tua. Tubuhnya berubah, dan kadang-kadang perubahan ini menyebabkan badannya semakin lemah, kadang-kadang itu adalah tanda sakit.

Kebanyakan kita cuba untuk tidak berfikir tentang penuaan. Kita tahu bahawa akhirnya ia akan berlaku kepada kita pada suatu hari nanti, atau lebih mudah untuk kita, jika tidak memikirkannya. Namun begitu kita tetap mengelakkannya kerana ia membuatkan kita cemas.

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Ramai orang yang lebih tua mengatakan bahawa mereka berasa seperti seorang anak muda. Fikiran mereka tidak berubah. Perasaan mereka sama. Corak pergerakan, setiap otot dan saraf di setiap bahagian badan disimpan dalam fikiran mereka.

Bagaimanapun, tubuh mereka tidak lagi dapat melaksanakan pergerakan itu. Ibu anda mungkin takut penuaan. Ia sangat menakutkan apabila sebahagian badannya berhenti bekerja, atau hanya bekerja dalam kesakitan. Atau, dia boleh menerima penuaannya dengan aman.
Apa pun perasaannya, anda sentiasa boleh berada di sisinya dan menemaninya serta memahaminya secara empati.

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Posted from my blog with SteemPress : http://arwine.vornix.blog/2018/08/15/growing-older/

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