How to find topics to discuss with your lover

in #famille5 years ago

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Do you find yourself unable to find the topics you talk to with your boyfriend and silently stand before him? After enough time has passed for you to know your lover well and meet a lot, you find yourself standing in a loss and thinking about what to talk to, this is not difficult and you can overcome it, by walking on those steps that I will present to you in order to renew the words between you and your lover, which is what decreases Silence between the two of you, while talking on the phone or text messages, during your meeting or talking on the Internet.
You can talk about topics that capture his mind and attention, as a person finds himself paying attention to topics that make him feel comfortable, especially when talking about himself or the topics he prefers, because he can speak well about those topics that he has spoken a lot, and we will provide you with some questions that You can put it on your lover and talk to her, including:

How he spent his time today.
Talking about his previous years, such as asking about his childhood place and what are the most important things that he can do, as well as those close to his heart from his family members.
What is his favorite sports?
What are his most important activities
The most important books he reads or the films and dramas he watches.
Always be a follow-up to the most important news, if you have time available, you can keep abreast of daily events by reading newspapers and magazines or accessing the Internet or following the most important news that is circulated on television, in which case you will find your mind raised with many topics, and you can also follow The most interesting and entertaining dramas that many people follow and also read the most important stories found through Facebook or YouTube. When you find yourself silent in front of your beloved, you can ask him about: Did he hear or read at a topic or news that raised your mind and your attention? Knowing about that topic, now you can tell him and talk to him about that topic.
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You can talk to him about his attitude towards a hypothetical, such as which is better for you: being blind or deaf? Also, what do you prefer to eat spinach without something or to follow programs on TV for eight hours continuously daily for the end of life? Where you can talk about many topics that raise his smile and stimulate his thinking about it in order to obtain a solution appropriate to it, and you can ask him about the most important reasons that made him prefer to do that.

You can quote a demonic role that contradicts all of his actions, which causes him to rethink his position and choose him as well. He reassesses the topic from the beginning, where you can tell him that you are trying to discuss and renew the conversation with him, and that the reason for that difference is not in the face.
There are also some questions that you can discuss with him, including what are the most important things that raise your mind and your thinking and you cannot sleep because of thinking about them? Or, if you had the opportunity to take your life back, what would you do again differently from the above? Or what are the most important things in your life that do not make you live without them? Or, if you have the opportunity to stick to only ten things, what are the most important things that you will always keep?

Ask him that he talks to you about the things he hides from you or does not know about him, as he can tell you about a certain thing he had never spoken about with you or the most important things he hidden from you one day past, and he will surely tell you about some important things that he hidden Or he did not remember to tell you about it, and you could ask him about a specific question. Is there another favorite pastime for him that he has not spoken to with you before?

There are a lot of people who miss their memories and past days a lot and here you can talk to him about his previous days and his beautiful and funny memories like the first day he went to school or the first games that his parents brought him, and he can also talk to you about his first party on the occasion of his birthday and remember it, These questions enable you to ask him to know the most important events that occurred during his childhood.
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You can ask him unfamiliar questions, which are exciting questions that he feels when talking about happiness and pleasure, but it is possible to choose the appropriate time to speak with them. One of the most important of these questions is: Do you fear the dark rat room that you feared in the past? Or what better do you have to sit in front of TV programs or surf on the Internet? Or what would our life be like if there were no fixed hours? These questions are light and playful, have no specific answer, and laughter can be provoked by them.

Where you can make him laugh and smile by telling him some funny jokes and he will feel that you are light and funny.

You can be a compliment to him, tell him about your happiness about some of the situations that occurred between you in the past days, and one of the most important examples tell him about your increasing happiness when going with him to a public place and eating dinner with him, and you can say that this restaurant is one of the beautiful restaurants that you did not see From before.

You can tell him about your future days with him, as you can tell him about the most important dreams that you dream about in the future, as you dream about going to Crete or writing interesting stories or riding a small boat that brings you together, and in the end, ask him about the most important wishes he wishes in the future.

Among the most important questions that you can ask him:

What is his favorite university and he can study in?
What are the most important subjects that prefer studying?
What is his favorite place and he can live?
What is the place you wish to go to?
What is his favorite activity or what activity is he dreaming about doing in the future?
What is the job that he wishes to do?
You can play a game he prefers, such as backgammon if he can play it or an online game or a video game, where you can both select and choose the game you want to play with, and if you are located within the same team you can talk about how to play that game and you can play some games Well-known ones:

Chess game
Ono game
Coaching game
Car racing game
Bank of Fortune game
Snakes and Ladders Game
Listen to his words effectively, when your lover talks about an important topic and raises his mind, you must listen to him and listen well, which makes him speak to you effectively and courageously, where you must take care of his words and encourage him and confirm his opinion on that topic by discussing some expressive words and display some of your views on a topic

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